Although I still think it was the best thing at the time to do, my 55year old sister refers her teenage abortion. I think she regrets what might have been because she has never had children. Would she make the same choice under the same circumstances knowing that she would never be a mother, she doesn’t know. I do think some women have regrets, but the question is what is the regret. |
and that is also a valid feeling to have. No one said people aren't allowed to regret their choices/decisions. But regretting a past choice vs blaming it on the other person for making or forcing you is a different animal. |
JT is trash, fo shizz fo shizz |
Yet Taylor Swift has made a billion dollars on blaming others for her losses. Britney tried to hide hers and took responsibility in private. If Britney had written a personal diary song about revenge and sex (like Justin did) it would have been worth millions. Sad really that pop culture has monetized revenge instead of grieving, but the proof is in the money. |
No she was right not to want to reproduce with him. |
“Scissors emerged and I watched in the mirror as my locks of long curly hair fell in piles on the floor. There I was in my plaid button down shirt, grinning sheepishly as my tour mates and friends cheered on my haircut. This simple thing that everyone does. But I had a secret. For me, it was more than a change of hairstyle. When I was 24, I decided to completely reinvent myself.”
Do you think that if Britney wrote this instead of Taylor, she would have been lauded for shaving her head? Is it more about the fact that Britney grew up without a strong support system, so she wasn’t able to express herself like Taylor even though the act of cutting hair was very similar and done for similar purposes: a young woman expressing herself. Why has one earned a billion dollars and the other the scorn of society? Why do you think that is DCUM? |
I always thought that she shaved her head so she couldn’t have her hair used for drug testing. The kind that can’t be detected in blood or urine, but can be in hair. No? |
Britneys words are: "I went into a hair salon, and I took the clippers, and I shaved off all my hair," Spears writes. "Everyone thought it was hilarious. Look how crazy she is! Even my parents acted embarrassed by me. But nobody seemed to understand that I was simply out of my mind with grief. My children had been taken away from me." Some people seek revenge (like Justin and Taylor) and try to hurt the one who hurt them. Britney seems to be the type that hurt herself when she is hurting. So why don’t people respect that in the same way they see Taylor’s vengeful vigilante shit which is an expression of hurt and pain? |
DP. But why is this even a discussion when you are talking about a specific woman expressing her personal feelings about her own choices? There’s tons of people in the world who outside looking in aren’t making the best choice having children and still get to make that choice for themselves. The goal of the pro-choice movement is to give women a choice not to decide that only women in great situations, likely to have the “best” children should have that option. Also…there appears to be nothing wrong with the children she did have. |
She probably should not have reproduced with anyone, given her family's genetics. . |
I SO want this woman to have a fierce comeback. |
Finally found this excerpt from the audio book of JT's blaccent, with Michelle Williams reading it! https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliethehero/video/7293551732318326062 |
Oh yeah, fo shizz fo shizz, he Ginuwinely is (a try-hard trash bag). |
It’s true- the vast majority of people do not regret their abortions. They do not find them traumatic, they’d make the same decision again. This has been borne out in study after study. You may have anecdotally heard different things in your “pro life” groups from mentally disturbed or weak-minded individuals. I feel very sorry for those lost souls, some people just can’t think for themselves which often how they find themselves associated with people who believe in fairy tales and other nonsense. Brittany appears to be a fine example of someone who is unable to think for herself and mentally disturbed. She probably still regrets wearing green to the grocery store 5 years ago, too. |
B dances around half naked on Instagram and that gives off a vibe. Taylor creates parasocial relationships with fans and evokes curiosity in her fans while making them all think she is their best friend. That’s the difference. Plus, B is not making new music. |