You truly are not a good person. Yes, I believe it because I know some of them. My heart breaks for your kids as if they ever had health or other issues, you'd tell them they are making it up. |
You are a neglectful parent. And, you don't have kids in MCPS and are grown, why are you trolling this board and stirring up trouble? You are lucky he is ok as it could have been far worse. Lots of kids commit suicide over stuff like that. |
I have a younger one there. She also is dealing with bullying and has done a great job navigating it on her own with additional supports at school. I don't need to pull her out of school because she's shy or different. Kids are mean in middle school...we all went through it. Shielding and protecting your kids from it only creates more problems down the road. They will never learn how to deal with awkward or difficult social situations. |
Well I guess you will find out how successful she was dealing on her own after she’s an adult and has her own children. If she talks to you. |
LOL we have a great relationship. I don't hover over her like the crazy nut case helicopter virtual parents. |
Not all kids deal with bullying well. Some kids need shielded, some kids need supported. Some kids just got unlucky with parents like you have to figure it out on their own. At least they can find a sanctuary in homes like ours where they can get that support they cannot get at home. One of mine is bullied in person now. It's not bad but I've had it and it annoys me the teacher allows it, who otherwise is a very good teacher. Thank goodness the bullies graduate this year. My kid doesn't want me to do anything about it. But the mine they want me to, I will be the first one to stand up for them and with them. Every child is different. I don't get how you can't understand that. This isn't about your kids, this is about the kids of the MVA who are happy and thriving and while you may not agree, it's not up to you to agree. I always wonder why parents allow their kids to be bullies, then people like you come along bullying online or treating their kids as you do and its easy to understand that no all kids get the same support at home as our kids do. |
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I'm a proud helicopter parent and what's nice is I have a strong relationship with my kids as we get to spend time together as when they were in person between school and activities we barely saw each other. |
Need? Just because you want something doesn't make it a "need." Plenty of families don't get into their desired magnet programs either. |
Amen. I love havingmy kids at home with me, they are happy and thriving. Shame some people don't understand tat and want them forced back to bad schools. |
But if a magnet or program were going to be cut or eliminated I sure wouldn’t be on here admonishing the parents and telling them to pay for private if they like it! |
This is a reason for the virtual academy? How about we just fix the schools? |
DP. More needs to be done to address bullying in schools. I was bullied in MS and then a good friend of mine was in HS. It sucked. But I think this highlights that more needs to be done so that kids can feel safe attending school in person rather than feeling forced into virtual. IMO, keeping virtual to serve bullied kids would mean giving schools a cop-out for something they should be addressing. |
| Do students in VA need to keep cameras on or do kids mostly have them off? |
For many families enrolled currently in the MVA, yes it is a reason. It is THE reason. Apart from the kids who have social anxiety, avoiding schools that parents deem too dangerous due to fighting, bullying, etc. is the most commonly cited reason for doing the MVA. It’s quite remarkable actually that these families have been able to take a pandemic learning tool and turn it into a school choice program for schools deemed too violent or emotionally unsafe to attend in person. |