| IKR |
All parents know they take responsibility for their kid's needs. How about the parents of the kid who brought a weapon to school last Monday? And how about needs of teachers? I know to take leave if needed but who is going to fill in position, a sub of which there's a shortage? Someone from HR or Central is going to sub teach classes tomorrow? |
| IKR, do security get substitutes too? Secretaries? Maintainence staff? ALL of them went through this on Monday. |
No, not all parents know they can simply write a note and have their child excused for unspecified undocumented health reasons. Not all parents know that there is an AP make up day. Many parents would prefer - like yourself it seems - to focus their rage on a perceived perpetrator kid and their imagined irresponsible parent. It makes you feel better and righteous be it accomplishes nothing - actually less than nothing. Adult society has chosen to be set itself up this way - no gun control, no access to mental health care, few programs to care for children of any age, violent/high-conflict adult communication and a preference for believing that the only true solution is an individual focus on blaming, shaming and punishing and othering the individual and parents. Because of this, we now live in a world where gun and bomb threats are real and frequent. Do I like it? No, but it's what we have until adults do better. And because of that, yes, if central office wants to keep school open after a bomb threat then they are going to have to flood the zone with personnel to fill people who take leave. Ot they have to combine classes in the gym or auditorium, etc. Is it ideal to have an HR person for a sub? No, but ideal outcomes were taken off the table by the bomb threatener. TBH, school has to remain open for another reason - bomb threats are a little like kidnapping. You can't reward the perp with his desired goal. You can't pay kidnappers. You can't shut down school for additional days, especially for a threat that turns out not to have had any real bombs or real violent intent, i.e. a swatting threat. If you do, you are just rewarding the perp with the chaos and fear he sought as a reward. And, again, some people need to be off of school to process; some people need to be with others. |
Nah, there was no focus, it was a question. Take it easy, RECENT bcc parent. |
To be clear adult U.S. society has set itself up like this. We seem to be one of the few who have forgotten that it’s takes a village to raise children and build community. Instead we think everyone needs to go it alone and pull themselves up. Then when bad things happen we’re looking for the village, only to realize it’s not there. So in defense and comfort we go for pointing fingers at who we think is to blame. |
Take it easy. Some BCC families may be pointing fingers, who knows. People are looking for answers as to what and how things played out what exactly happened before they know where/what/how/who to go to try to continue or start trying to make changes if any to make. Village is around, need to open your eyes! |
| Are mental health services and more security being provided for those needing at school this week? |
I don’t know about this week, but my BCC student went to school on Friday and there was more security and they made an announcement about having counselors available. |
The absence of a statement from MCPS and County after a never-before-used-on-school-property-response-team is striking. No one is looking for empty words btw, MCPS or County. |
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Can you share names of secular HS in Bethesda area? |
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Holton Arms
Fenyman |
Does Fenyman have a HS program? |
MCPS is better off not saying anything. Their statements, especially as of recent, don't tend to make situations better or assuage anyone's feelings. |