Bennifer Revisited

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Anonymous wrote:So again, why so much sh^t about Jennifer when Marc is no better?

https://people.com/music/marc-anthony-engaged-to-nadia-ferreira/

Prior to his relationship with Ferreira, Anthony had been married three times. He tied the knot with former Miss Universe Dayanara Torres in 2000, and the pair welcomed two sons, Cristian and Ryan, before splitting in 2004. The same year, Anthony began dating Jennifer Lopez, and the pair married in July 2004 before having twins, Max and Emme. They announced their split in 2011, and the divorce became final in 2014, but the exes remain cordial co-parents to this day.

Anthony then married model Shannon De Lima in November 2014. The pair separated two years later before announcing their divorce in December 2016 and finalizing the split in February 2017. Before announcing his relationship with Ferreira, he was most recently publicly linked to Madu Nicola, with whom he shared a kiss on the 2021 Billboard Latin Music Awards red carpet.

because she is is their mother. dads are important, but moms are more important.

It’s because we see her and her posts 100x more than we see him. I feel sorry for those poor kids with these two as parents.

The kids appear to be loved but are certainly not being raised by people who are able to commit to and remain in longterm relationships. Instead, the parents seem to be seeking a turnover of youth and what they consider sexy partners.

Yes. It’s clear Lopez is chasing youth in finally marrying 22 year old Ben Affleck. Same for him but somehow she’s worse. Cool.

To me it’s about not the age of their partners in this case, unlike what PP said. It’s the combination of the impulsivity and attention seeking behaviors to flaunt it that seem immature and sort of desperately youth chasing.

I'm the PP who mentioned turnover of youth and sexy partners. I may not have phrased it well. I meant feeling young/holding onto excitement and sexiness. Can't maintain a longterm relationship as it matures.

That’s a little unfair - JLo was married 10 years to Marc, that’s not an insignificant amount of time.

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Anonymous wrote:So again, why so much sh^t about Jennifer when Marc is no better?

https://people.com/music/marc-anthony-engaged-to-nadia-ferreira/

Prior to his relationship with Ferreira, Anthony had been married three times. He tied the knot with former Miss Universe Dayanara Torres in 2000, and the pair welcomed two sons, Cristian and Ryan, before splitting in 2004. The same year, Anthony began dating Jennifer Lopez, and the pair married in July 2004 before having twins, Max and Emme. They announced their split in 2011, and the divorce became final in 2014, but the exes remain cordial co-parents to this day.

Anthony then married model Shannon De Lima in November 2014. The pair separated two years later before announcing their divorce in December 2016 and finalizing the split in February 2017. Before announcing his relationship with Ferreira, he was most recently publicly linked to Madu Nicola, with whom he shared a kiss on the 2021 Billboard Latin Music Awards red carpet.

because she is is their mother. dads are important, but moms are more important.

It’s because we see her and her posts 100x more than we see him. I feel sorry for those poor kids with these two as parents.

The kids appear to be loved but are certainly not being raised by people who are able to commit to and remain in longterm relationships. Instead, the parents seem to be seeking a turnover of youth and what they consider sexy partners.

Yes. It’s clear Lopez is chasing youth in finally marrying 22 year old Ben Affleck. Same for him but somehow she’s worse. Cool.

To me it’s about not the age of their partners in this case, unlike what PP said. It’s the combination of the impulsivity and attention seeking behaviors to flaunt it that seem immature and sort of desperately youth chasing.

I'm the PP who mentioned turnover of youth and sexy partners. I may not have phrased it well. I meant feeling young/holding onto excitement and sexiness. Can't maintain a longterm relationship as it matures.

That’s a little unfair - JLo was married 10 years to Marc, that’s not an insignificant amount of time.

They were together for 7 years - they separated in 2011 and divorced was final in 2014. https://www.insider.com/jennifer-lopez-marc-anthony-relationship-timeline-2021-7#2004-the-couple-ended-up-back-together-4

Looks like they met/became friends in 1998, but each married/got engaged to other people in the meantime (J Lo was with Ben Affleck 202/03 to 2004) then got together and got married quickly. They had the twins in 2008 and separated 3 years later.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:So again, why so much sh^t about Jennifer when Marc is no better?

https://people.com/music/marc-anthony-engaged-to-nadia-ferreira/

Prior to his relationship with Ferreira, Anthony had been married three times. He tied the knot with former Miss Universe Dayanara Torres in 2000, and the pair welcomed two sons, Cristian and Ryan, before splitting in 2004. The same year, Anthony began dating Jennifer Lopez, and the pair married in July 2004 before having twins, Max and Emme. They announced their split in 2011, and the divorce became final in 2014, but the exes remain cordial co-parents to this day.

Anthony then married model Shannon De Lima in November 2014. The pair separated two years later before announcing their divorce in December 2016 and finalizing the split in February 2017. Before announcing his relationship with Ferreira, he was most recently publicly linked to Madu Nicola, with whom he shared a kiss on the 2021 Billboard Latin Music Awards red carpet.

because she is is their mother. dads are important, but moms are more important.

It’s because we see her and her posts 100x more than we see him. I feel sorry for those poor kids with these two as parents.

The kids appear to be loved but are certainly not being raised by people who are able to commit to and remain in longterm relationships. Instead, the parents seem to be seeking a turnover of youth and what they consider sexy partners.

Yes. It’s clear Lopez is chasing youth in finally marrying 22 year old Ben Affleck. Same for him but somehow she’s worse. Cool.

To me it’s about not the age of their partners in this case, unlike what PP said. It’s the combination of the impulsivity and attention seeking behaviors to flaunt it that seem immature and sort of desperately youth chasing.

I'm the PP who mentioned turnover of youth and sexy partners. I may not have phrased it well. I meant feeling young/holding onto excitement and sexiness. Can't maintain a longterm relationship as it matures.

That’s a little unfair - JLo was married 10 years to Marc, that’s not an insignificant amount of time.

PP here. I guess it all depends on your perspective and background. Multiple marriages and blending families with fiances like Marc and J Lo have done do not equate to longterm commitments IMHO.

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Cheers to the happy couple!

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Again? How many times do they have to get married?

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Anonymous wrote:Again? How many times do they have to get married?

And on a plantation? Ewww.

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Anonymous wrote:Again? How many times do they have to get married?

All the times. Every time there isn’t enough paparazzi waiting outside their door, they will get married again.

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Well with her track record I give it 8 years.

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Wearing a white dress for the 5th time. She has no shame

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Well with her track record I give it 8 years.

I think that’s optimistic. The vast majority of fourth marriages end within five years.

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Anonymous wrote:Again? How many times do they have to get married?

And on a plantation? Ewww.

Yeah, I don’t get People magazine’s insistence on using “plantation” style like it’s the 80s. Especially since one of Ben’s ancestors was a slave-owner, a discovery he tried to bury on PBS finding your ancestry documentary. Ben apologized for it, but I bet he is cringing to read People’s clueless descriptor.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Again? How many times do they have to get married?

And on a plantation? Ewww.

Yeah, I don’t get People magazine’s insistence on using “plantation” style like it’s the 80s. Especially since one of Ben’s ancestors was a slave-owner, a discovery he tried to bury on PBS finding your ancestry documentary. Ben apologized for it, but I bet he is cringing to read People’s clueless descriptor.

It was designed and built (before Affleck bought it) to be “plantation style.” If he didn’t want the wedding to be labeled “plantation style”, maybe he shouldn’t have decided to hold the wedding on his “plantation style” estate a few miles from where his ancestors owned slaves.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Again? How many times do they have to get married?

And on a plantation? Ewww.

Yeah, I don’t get People magazine’s insistence on using “plantation” style like it’s the 80s. Especially since one of Ben’s ancestors was a slave-owner, a discovery he tried to bury on PBS finding your ancestry documentary. Ben apologized for it, but I bet he is cringing to read People’s clueless descriptor.

It was designed and built (before Affleck bought it) to be “plantation style.” If he didn’t want the wedding to be labeled “plantation style”, maybe he shouldn’t have decided to hold the wedding on his “plantation style” estate a few miles from where his ancestors owned slaves.

Yeah, you’re right. Tone deaf and a paradox given his bonafides as a Democrat and a co-founder of the Eastern Congo Initiative. However, he IS a college dropout where a lot of us learn how to at least make an effort at being politically correct.

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Anonymous wrote:Again? How many times do they have to get married?

And on a plantation? Ewww.

+1000