Did you attend coed public and switch to all girls in jr or sr high?

[Anonymous]

If so, how was it? This may occur for DD if we move overseas as country seems to prefer private, single sex schools. All of them are much smaller than her current jr high school. While I know it's a benefit, I'm pretty sure DD won't see it that way. I am planning to ask the schools which boy's school they partner with - I'm pretty sure they will do that but it doesn't appear that they have any classes together. Any advice for us on how to handle it?

We will take her for visits to several and may look at one coed school but the single sex schools seem stronger and we'd like it if she chose that option. TIA!

[Anonymous]

I loved my all girls' high school after spending my middle school yrs with immature boys. I loved not having to care what I looked like day after day and my mother loved how much money she saved on clothes. I had 2 uniforms my entire 4 yrs, one pair of shoes, a few sweaters, a gym uniform and that's it. We did go to mixers at the boys' schools but I was happy to come back to a place where I felt comfortable.

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Anonymous wrote:I loved my all girls' high school after spending my middle school yrs with immature boys. I loved not having to care what I looked like day after day and my mother loved how much money she saved on clothes. I had 2 uniforms my entire 4 yrs, one pair of shoes, a few sweaters, a gym uniform and that's it. We did go to mixers at the boys' schools but I was happy to come back to a place where I felt comfortable.

This!!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I loved my all girls' high school after spending my middle school yrs with immature boys. I loved not having to care what I looked like day after day and my mother loved how much money she saved on clothes. I had 2 uniforms my entire 4 yrs, one pair of shoes, a few sweaters, a gym uniform and that's it. We did go to mixers at the boys' schools but I was happy to come back to a place where I felt comfortable.

Ditto. I felt so prepared because I spent more time actually focused on school vs. BOYS!! Which is what I spent all weekends on

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I loved my all girls' high school after spending my middle school yrs with immature boys. I loved not having to care what I looked like day after day and my mother loved how much money she saved on clothes. I had 2 uniforms my entire 4 yrs, one pair of shoes, a few sweaters, a gym uniform and that's it. We did go to mixers at the boys' schools but I was happy to come back to a place where I felt comfortable.

Ditto. I felt so prepared because I spent more time actually focused on school vs. BOYS!! Which is what I spent all weekends on

Me too!

[Anonymous]

No, but I would have loved to.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I loved my all girls' high school after spending my middle school yrs with immature boys. I loved not having to care what I looked like day after day and my mother loved how much money she saved on clothes. I had 2 uniforms my entire 4 yrs, one pair of shoes, a few sweaters, a gym uniform and that's it. We did go to mixers at the boys' schools but I was happy to come back to a place where I felt comfortable.

This!!!

ITA! In my experiences, being in an all-girls environment allows girls to participate more in school and leadership activities. It was a wonderful experience for me that I credit with helping give me the confidence in myself that I so desperately needed.

[Anonymous]

Loved it.... except during date dance and prom season since I never had dates. Otherwise it was awesome. Also, made me think all girls were smart!

[Anonymous]

Thank you all for posting. Seems like everyone found it to be a positive experience which is what I had hoped.

[Anonymous]

I did and I hated it. But that is because it was hard to enter a very close-knit environment with girls who had known each other for many years.

[Anonymous]

21:06 yes, definitely something we considered. I've thought of that and the school we are looking at had almost 50% new girls enter in 7th grade, which would be my dd's class so hopefully that wouldn't be such an issue.

[Anonymous]

I switched in middle school and hated it. My best year in school and socially was when I took a class at the boys school. I'm not sure I got along great with other girls before, but I certainly didn't walk away with any bestest friends. But, I get why my folks did it. They wanted me in a private non religious school and that was the only option. I still grew up ok and now have lots of girlfriends.