I get this, but the posts about the sick child are major red flags. Is that a reaction to extreme stress? |
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Someone who marries some she met six weeks ago, moves her kids into this man’s home, is willing to move her and the kids across the country to be with him, and then ends the marriage two months later isn’t in the right frame of mind to be raising kids. That lack of judgment and poor decision making and impulsivity isn’t healthy at all for kids.
I am sure the Meghan fan club posters will blame that poor judgment and decision making on Jim too but in reality Meghan is responsible for her own decisions and choices. |
Not all of think that it is okay for children to be harmed or killed based on a biased belief that children should always be with their mothers and that men or fathers are evil. Would you like me to share a list of mothers who have harmed or killed their kids? Advocating for mothers blindly at the expense of their kids is shameful. The kids matter and they have a right to a safe and stable lives. There is nothing about being a woman or man that makes one a better parent. And anyone, man or woman, can say they aren’t responsible for their behaviour, they can say that all their actions are reactions to other people or to trauma - but at the end of the day when those actions and reactions harm the kids, they shouldn’t have custody. The courts are not anti mothers in the least. They were very anti fathers for years and now that they are becoming less biased and including fathers more in custody and care, that is a good thing, it isn’t anti mothers. There are many YouTube channels that play live family court cases - you can watch thousands of family court cases. There is definitely no anti mother bias. What you do see though is both mothers and fathers being the ones who are making decisions in the best interest of their kids and mothers and fathers who aren’t. |
There is no evidence about the ritual allegation. None of the tabloids has posted an actual, named source. At best, it's an attention-seeking Real Housewives alumna who said it because CPS would not turn over that information to them. Deep dive into Reddit suggests that this past year, after Jim moved to Tennessee, Meghan became a bit unhinged with sending emails to the school about pickups and how he'd moved away, etc. If anyone has credible evidence about the Ritalin allegation naming a real source, it would be nice to read it, because I'm so perplexed. No question Meghan has some issues, but you would have to be straight up insane, as a divorced parent in a high-conflict coparenting situation, to give your kid ritalin that you purchased on the black market without a prescription and ask a school employee to administer it? Like, totally insane. You would have to be insane even if you weren't divorced. Meghan - not popular right now, but insane? There has to be more to the story. Like, perhaps she got him a prescription for her child without Jim's consent, which is an issue if he has joint legal decision-making. That would still be a serious problem, but not the sensational story that Jim's team is spinning to the media. |
They are in poor judgment, and perhaps we should change our laws to make it illegal to post things about your kids on social media? |
Pot meet kettle. |
| When Jim moved to Tennessee, how did he and Meghan share custody if she was in St. Louis? |
You have a reading comprehension problem. |
Nope. You’re just so deep into your online fantasies that you can’t see how disturbed Meghan has been over the years. All from her own POV. |
They only recently moved FT to TN. Meghan lost custody in October. |
He bought a house and moved to Tennessee in "part-time" in 2025 - I think part of her "breakdown" was that his move shifted more of the parenting responsibilities that they had previously shared to her, so she became an almost full-time parent of 3 kids, at least one of which she said had special needs, plus she was working. Also, he was allegedly bullying her at custody exchanges and through his attorneys. And he married her friend, a pornstar, with whom they had a 3-some, and coparenting with the two of them was also probably not easy. I feel sorry for her. Though she never should have married, signed a prenup, and had babies with a twice-divorced man who already had two sets of kids and is a known cheater. |
Usually you **cannot** move out of state like that without having it negatively affect your custody, obviously (meaning Jim). Because, yes, you can't share something like week on/week off custody across TWO states. You just can't do that. But, dirtbag Jim has unlimited resources with the ability to pay for a high-powered legal team AND there is a lot of collusion and corruption in the St. Louis family court system (please see the recent articles about the federal lawsuit brought against the family court system there). So one possibility is that a corrupt family court judge in Edmonds' pocket approved the move and who knows what was done with the custody schedule arrangement. Calling Meghan "unhinged" (PP upthread) when dealing with something like that is not nice and also indicative of not understanding the workings of shared custody and family court. Him up and moving to Tennessee like that, while his kids lives have always been in St. Louis (including school, friends, etc) is a HUGE red flag. In my opinion, that was one of the steps in some nasty grand plan of his. And now to have the children ripped away from their lives in St. Louis and suddenly and permanently moved to Tennessee is absolutely unconscionable and this entire thing is disgusting (but not surprising when you are stuck in a custody situation with someone like Jim). |
Yes, it apparently was part-time earlier this year, until the kids were taken from Meghan and he could taken them to TN and complete his objective of being in TN full-time without having to deal with shared custody. Remember, he sold his property in St. Louis last year, so that was step one in whatever grand plan he had. |
Of course it's your prerogative to be an apologist and supporter of malignant narcissist abusers. |
Again, pot meet kettle. |