Child Psychologist for aggressive 2 YO?

[Anonymous]

I have a very strong and sometimes aggressive two year old boy. My father suggested that I talk with a child psychologist to figure out the best way to channel my son's energy. Is this too much too soon? Does this really happen at age two? If so, and you've been through this, has it made a difference?

[Anonymous]

behavior?

[Anonymous]

Preschool teacher here...
It definitely wouldn't be a bad idea. Many people will tell you it's a "phase" and to just wait it out, and they're probably right... but I believe that the advice of a child psychologist could help both you and him as you work through this phase. I can't imagine that ongoing visits would be necessary at this age. But you could most likely benefit from an observation and consult.

If your child is in daycare or preschool, you could establish strategies to use at home and make your child's teacher aware of the strategies so that they can be used consistently at daycare/school also.


Start with your pediatrician.

[Anonymous]

The visits would be more for you - they probably will observe your son and give you strategies to work on.

[Anonymous]

I would lean towards a parenting class than a child psychologist unless there are other warning signs that something is 'off' with your child.

Not because it would be harmful at all, but because you should realize that most 2 yos are aggressive. That is what they do. They are learning how and when they need to control their impulses and communicate in socially acceptable ways. As a parent it is helpful to find some tools to help you manage their behavior better, and it will put things in perspective.

[Anonymous]

Call pediatrician for infant & toddlers program in your area. assessments are free and in your home

[Anonymous]

similar situation, my pediatrician recommended PEP, Parenting Encouragement Program, classes & private consult. Good luck