Where to find a no-strings attached affair partner

[Anonymous]

Hey are you still looking?

[Anonymous]

Bump. What apps/websites are people using? I don't want to put my face on a public profile. Would share my face after some messages.

-40 year old man

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Bump. What apps/websites are people using? I don't want to put my face on a public profile. Would share my face after some messages.

-40 year old man

40s male here... do you want hot sexy 20 year olds or do you want women your own age? for me, I prefer the hot, pretty young things, preferably with pre-baby tight ass and bodies. for that I use seeking.com and look for sugar babies. DC area has plenty of options it comes at a $ cost (sugar babies need $$ to put out but it is drama free and the sex is usually HOT) ... but also without the other costs that could make NSA FWB sex messy for a married man. for me it is worth it.

[Anonymous]

The DMV is loaded with guiltless NSA willing married APs. Work was the best place pre-Covid. There has to be something in the water here to make it so easy but it’s truly nirvana.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The DMV is loaded with guiltless NSA willing married APs. Work was the best place pre-Covid. There has to be something in the water here to make it so easy but it’s truly nirvana.

if you have more time than money this works .. you gotta put in lot of effort and never know when the NSA sex will come through. this option by its nature comes with lot of drama
if you have more money than time, need discretion, convenience, hot young bodies and hot sex .. seeking.com

[Anonymous]

I always had great luck on AshleyMadison.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Bump. What apps/websites are people using? I don't want to put my face on a public profile. Would share my face after some messages.

-40 year old man

40s male here... do you want hot sexy 20 year olds or do you want women your own age? for me, I prefer the hot, pretty young things, preferably with pre-baby tight ass and bodies. for that I use seeking.com and look for sugar babies. DC area has plenty of options it comes at a $ cost (sugar babies need $$ to put out but it is drama free and the sex is usually HOT) ... but also without the other costs that could make NSA FWB sex messy for a married man. for me it is worth it.

make sure you have a vasectomy.

[Anonymous]

How much do you pay for this sort of agreement?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Bump. What apps/websites are people using? I don't want to put my face on a public profile. Would share my face after some messages.

-40 year old man

40s male here... do you want hot sexy 20 year olds or do you want women your own age? for me, I prefer the hot, pretty young things, preferably with pre-baby tight ass and bodies. for that I use seeking.com and look for sugar babies. DC area has plenty of options it comes at a $ cost (sugar babies need $$ to put out but it is drama free and the sex is usually HOT) ... but also without the other costs that could make NSA FWB sex messy for a married man. for me it is worth it.

This is the most pathetic thing I've read in a while.

-a man

[Anonymous]

I found one at work and one at a conference. It's more of a numbers game if you are a man. Be charming and flirty and one in a couple dozen will reciprocate.

Full warning, most women who affair are ready to leave their marriage

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I found one at work and one at a conference. It's more of a numbers game if you are a man. Be charming and flirty and one in a couple dozen will reciprocate.

Full warning, most women who affair are ready to leave their marriage

Yep and it’s a line you will have to navigate. Aloof enough that they think they have a chance to be w/ you one day. You need to keep saying things like “when the kids are older” , and kick the cam down the road. Eventually you have to cut them loose because they take bigger chances and become a liability. But if you do it right you might be able to keep the sex going for several years without the hassle of trying to find a brand new side piece.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I found one at work and one at a conference. It's more of a numbers game if you are a man. Be charming and flirty and one in a couple dozen will reciprocate.

Full warning, most women who affair are ready to leave their marriage

Yep and it’s a line you will have to navigate. Aloof enough that they think they have a chance to be w/ you one day. You need to keep saying things like “when the kids are older” , and kick the cam down the road. Eventually you have to cut them loose because they take bigger chances and become a liability. But if you do it right you might be able to keep the sex going for several years without the hassle of trying to find a brand new side piece.

PP you are responding to, I agree about them taking more risks as thing go along. For me, I never said I was leaving my marriage, and in fact I didn't like talking about my wife at all. Wife and I are fine although I miss the sexual part of my marriage. I was very honest with AP that I still had sex with my wife about 1x a month.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I found one at work and one at a conference. It's more of a numbers game if you are a man. Be charming and flirty and one in a couple dozen will reciprocate.

Full warning, most women who affair are ready to leave their marriage

Yep and it’s a line you will have to navigate. Aloof enough that they think they have a chance to be w/ you one day. You need to keep saying things like “when the kids are older” , and kick the cam down the road. Eventually you have to cut them loose because they take bigger chances and become a liability. But if you do it right you might be able to keep the sex going for several years without the hassle of trying to find a brand new side piece.

PP you are responding to, I agree about them taking more risks as thing go along. For me, I never said I was leaving my marriage, and in fact I didn't like talking about my wife at all. Wife and I are fine although I miss the sexual part of my marriage. I was very honest with AP that I still had sex with my wife about 1x a month.

My ex-AP got upset a few years in when somehow I let on my wife and I had sex a couple times a week still. She had ceased having sex with her husband and talked negatively about him. Like you, I preferred never to speak of my wife and when I did I never spoke bad or said anything negative. That’s when things definitely started turning in the affair because she realized I was never leaving my wife. I never told her that I ever had any plans to do that, but by hanging around she read way more into the length of time of the affair and I guess she thought she could prove irresistible. I never once envisioned a life with her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I found one at work and one at a conference. It's more of a numbers game if you are a man. Be charming and flirty and one in a couple dozen will reciprocate.

Full warning, most women who affair are ready to leave their marriage

Yep and it’s a line you will have to navigate. Aloof enough that they think they have a chance to be w/ you one day. You need to keep saying things like “when the kids are older” , and kick the cam down the road. Eventually you have to cut them loose because they take bigger chances and become a liability. But if you do it right you might be able to keep the sex going for several years without the hassle of trying to find a brand new side piece.

PP you are responding to, I agree about them taking more risks as thing go along. For me, I never said I was leaving my marriage, and in fact I didn't like talking about my wife at all. Wife and I are fine although I miss the sexual part of my marriage. I was very honest with AP that I still had sex with my wife about 1x a month.

My ex-AP got upset a few years in when somehow I let on my wife and I had sex a couple times a week still. She had ceased having sex with her husband and talked negatively about him. Like you, I preferred never to speak of my wife and when I did I never spoke bad or said anything negative. That’s when things definitely started turning in the affair because she realized I was never leaving my wife. I never told her that I ever had any plans to do that, but by hanging around she read way more into the length of time of the affair and I guess she thought she could prove irresistible. I never once envisioned a life with her.

This totally sounds like the "vindicated" wife posting as her husband to convince us and herself that her husband never had feelings for his AP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I found one at work and one at a conference. It's more of a numbers game if you are a man. Be charming and flirty and one in a couple dozen will reciprocate.

Full warning, most women who affair are ready to leave their marriage

Yep and it’s a line you will have to navigate. Aloof enough that they think they have a chance to be w/ you one day. You need to keep saying things like “when the kids are older” , and kick the cam down the road. Eventually you have to cut them loose because they take bigger chances and become a liability. But if you do it right you might be able to keep the sex going for several years without the hassle of trying to find a brand new side piece.

PP you are responding to, I agree about them taking more risks as thing go along. For me, I never said I was leaving my marriage, and in fact I didn't like talking about my wife at all. Wife and I are fine although I miss the sexual part of my marriage. I was very honest with AP that I still had sex with my wife about 1x a month.

My ex-AP got upset a few years in when somehow I let on my wife and I had sex a couple times a week still. She had ceased having sex with her husband and talked negatively about him. Like you, I preferred never to speak of my wife and when I did I never spoke bad or said anything negative. That’s when things definitely started turning in the affair because she realized I was never leaving my wife. I never told her that I ever had any plans to do that, but by hanging around she read way more into the length of time of the affair and I guess she thought she could prove irresistible. I never once envisioned a life with her.

This totally sounds like the "vindicated" wife posting as her husband to convince us and herself that her husband never had feelings for his AP.

This totally sounds like the AP who actually believed a married man had feelings her and wasn't just using her for sex and fun.