My wife and I are in our mid-40s and we each went straight into the labor market at age 21, so we have a couple of decades of savings under our belt. I never made much more than $70K in my twenties, but I still managed to stuff maybe 15K a year into the stock market. From age 35 to 45, I probably stuffed 35K a year into the stock market. Before the 2001 crash and the 2008 crash, I had an uneasy feeling and downshifted my equity exposure. So I side-stepped the market crashes. Now, my savings rate is probably a bit lower ... maybe only 15K a year ... but the equity I've built up generates a fair amount of investment income each year. I save a lot not because I'm cheap, but I simply don't enjoy "stuff" very much. And if it weren't for our kids, I would be completely content to live out the rest of my days in a small condo. The house we just bought is solely for the sake of the kids, and it is only 2000 square feet. For a minimalist like myself, anything larger would seem excessive. |
+1 almost exact same story for us |
Do you get concerned you missed out? We plan on buying in 2 years and I get worried rates will increase significantly, the tax bill will pass with a $500k mortgage deduction limit, home prices will continue to rise, etc. We do own a home we'd be happy staying in if we had to and I suppose we'd have a massive brokerage account in five years. |
Sold close in shit shack we bought when we were 30 in 2009
Had kids Left town Bought 5 acres and a 5000 sq ft farmhouse/craftsman in a different state - last year |
Bought around 1.4 in falls church when we were 38 and 45 two years ago, DH had an investment condo bought in 2005, it has been underwater for a while but we managed to always have a renter to almost cover that mortgage. |
I'm 36. We bought our first "starter" house when we got married when I was 24. DH was 28. It was a little over ~ 500k 12 years ago. DH paid the down payment out of his savings.
We ended up staying and renovating/adding on with an addition so we could grow into it after we started having our kids. |
^ we're in Bethesda |
Sold our 1960's split foyer and moved to another state. Bought a new, almost 4000sqft home on 1.5 acres w/pool.
We're in our 50's with teenagers. |
Immediate PP here. Absolutely. However, we can definitely stay where we are if that ends up making the most sense. We love our house and could expand/renovate to make staying more reasonable, love our neighborhood, and have great in bounds schools. We lucked into the house and have a ton of equity already. Ultimately would just like more space and a slightly larger patch of grass. |
So by today's prices, that house is a 1M house. WHO moves into a 1M house when they're 24? You must have family money. |
And how are you feeling right now about equities? When are you planning to downshift this time? |
37.
Tiny house on expensive piece of land near downtown Bethesda. Selected for walkability, short commute, international community and good schools. Very happy. |
We are very similar. 36 and 38, 2000 sf, 4b/2.5ba colonial in AU Park. We bought about 2 years ago after we sold the Rockville townhouse we bought when we were 31 and 33. |
Wait I had no money for even a car at 22? TF? |
34, DH is 38. We live in the outer burbs.
Bought a semi-detached in 2012, sold last year with almost $100k equity. Bought a large SFH in same area with most of the equity as down payment. I'd rather live in something smaller closer-in, but DH likes it out here, the schools are really good for the kids we now have, and we have a live-in grandma for whom there is not enough space in the world. If we manage to unload grandma we'll be buying a TH somewhat closer in. |