One I continue to see you state this and I think you arent from the US. You must be from abroad, specifically UK. Two, explain all of your tiers and what they mean Three, in my experience and how most of us are discussing this topic: working class is a step above poor. they are hourly or pink professions. poor is poor- food stamps, etc. middle class are professionals- doctors, lawyers, teachers (previously), business, etc. upper middle is the upper middle of the middle class of professionals. wealthy is a >top1% or wealth created from investment/passive. |
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Our HHI is around 300K.
Our luxuries are 24K/year private school for DC, education enrichment activities and one nice vacation a year. We don’t have a house cleaner or a lawn cutting service, we drive Hondas and Toyotas. We budget and there is nothing extra left at the end of the month. We can’t afford to replace our patio door because we don’t have 10K lying around. We can’t afford to go somewhere nice for winter break because we already had an expensive vacation in the summer. I don’t feel rich at all. |
Just because a job requires a college degree to be hired, doesn’t mean the job requires a college degree. There is not a single definition of working class. A half second google search will demonstrate this. Many jobs that used to require intellectual skills no longer do thanks to computers and automation. Lots of office workers are essentially just warm bodies which are easily replaceable, and their compensation reflects that. I am sorry this discussion and difference of opinion makes you so angry, though. I’ve clearly hit a nerve. |
It's great to read a post in which someone who has done well for themselves is able to feel pleasure and gratitude for what they have. |
| I think there is also evidence that most older people think they are not that old and are doing fine and that includes the current and immediately former presidents. |
Middle class in Michigan, with good union jobs, absolutely means people with pontoon boats and second homes (basically cabins) up north. And yes, we takes cruises to the Caribbean once in a while. |
What are "middle class" people allowed to have, exactly? Our used boat cost us $4,000. Our cars are 10 and 17 years old. Our kids went to college with no debt because we had prepaid Florida tuition plans we paid on since the moment they were born. Our large house was $275,000, and we used the funds from our small first house to put a large downpayment because we sold that house during the housing boom, then bought in a different, lower cost area. We have a lot in our retirement funds because we have been saving for 40 years. Neither of us has ever made a six figure salary. And yet the people here think they are poor with HHI of $ 250,000. |
Because you are paying $24k a year for private school. You could afford everything you mention and then some if you just sent your kid to public school. This is a CHOICE you are making. How you “feel” because you make that choice is irrelevant. |
Please stop commenting on this post. The OP asks how you FEEL not what you are by conventional definition. You’re a broken record and a smear on this thread. |
NP and I agree. And I’ll share a similar story. I grew up working in my family’s small retail business in a highly desirable resort town, where the disparity between the haves and the have nots is striking. I was always astounded by the amount of wealthy people that walked through our doors and the amount of money they dropped. Our business was back breaking work and the margins very narrow. We couldn’t always pay the bills, or the rent. I will never forget the nigh right before we were about to close after a really slow day of very few sales that a wealthy couple walked in and bought two wine glasses for $38. My parent and I exchanged glances of relief that we could take that cash straight to the store and buy groceries. I came to the DC area years ago for my education and never left. I worked hard, as did my husband, and we now make a little over $450k. I feel rich. I don’t get to buy everything I want, but I remember what it was like to not be able to make ends meet for many years. I think the people that earn a similar amount and still feel middle class don’t always have that perspective of what it’s like to hustle to buy groceries. They see everyone around them, their neighbors and friends and collegues who are more or less in a similar financial boat, and lump themselves into the “middle class” because they conflate it with “typical for those in my immediate environment.” |
Dp. I am floored you say lots of office workers are essentially warm bodies and replaceable. Have you ever had to deal with a bad admin? Or it is that you have never had a good one? A good admin is worth their weight in gold. |
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210k income Net worth $1.08M with like $800k in 401k accounts. 0 in 529s, 3 kids. We're in the donut hole and my wife doesn't believe in 529 accounts. |
| Yeah we're solidly UMC. |
Your kids already attended college and you bought a house for $275. Try doing it with current house and college prices. |
Plenty of people live just fine today on $250,000, even in the DMV. |