NP. You had an opportunity to be the bigger person. You couldn't help yourself and came back over the top with the post that proved you were the tone deaf d-bag you were accused of being. Well played! |
| NP who disagrees. Stay positive. Lobby the school to work with parents advocates to set up the prep courses or subsidize the live stream option from the UK for low-income participants. These are good ideas. Name calling isn’t. |
You must have studied at the "Mean Girl School of Communication" if you think telling someone, "you're jealous of me!" is an appropriate or nice thing to say. |
| Good god. Calm down. |
NP here. You seriously said “must be nice.” If you don’t understand that is an expression of jealousy, your finances are not your biggest problem. |
Thanks for this smart post, PP. |
If you look, around, "wealthy folks" in DC public schools with the "means and desire to supplement" to help their children achieve aren't confined to Upper NW these days. These folks amalgamate not only at Deal and JR but at Walls, BASIS, Latin I and to a lesser extent at Banneker and DCI. We know EotP families at Walls and BASIS who quietly team up to hire tutors to provide small group AP prep/review. Some of these parents send their children to pre-college AP summer programs on college campuses. The fact that this type of pricey supplementing is kicking in at DCI for IBD exam prep and language immersion, if just in a small way, shouldn't come as a surprise. Many UMC DC families with children in public middle and high schools can afford 5K, 10K, even 15K in academic enrichment per student annually, just not the 30-50K+ to cover tuition and fees at non-sectarian private schools in the area. If DCI admins were more on the ball, they'd team up with OSSE to help low and moderate-income students access summer IBD programs abroad. OSSE has been providing grants to fund AP prep on college campuses for a small number of high-achieving low SES DCPS students for years. I tutor an excellent at-risk DCPS student who won a grant from OSSE to spend the month of July at an AP prep residential program on an Ivy League campus. She tells me that her family paid nothing for her to attend. |
| No question that more UMC involvement at DCI over time is changing the way families approach college admissions. |
Here is the link for the OSSE summer study program: https://osse.dc.gov/page/osse-scholars-summer-college-programs These are general academic programs, not specifically tailored to APs. No reason they wouldn’t work for DCI students too. It’s not like IB requires some esoteric skill set that schools like Stanford, Yale and Chicago haven’t heard of. |
You've identified one of the faults in the "teach to the middle/bottom in the name of equity" approach. The idea seems to be that DC doesn't provide advanced work or rigor because it isn't fair to the kids who can't do the work. They don't allow test-in schools because tests aren't fair to kids who don't know as much (!). This approach makes no sense on its face, but even less so when one realizes that parents will supplement. Eliminating rigor and perversion of equity doesn't make the playing field more fair, it creates even more differentiation. The kids hurt most are the talented ones without access to resources from whom rigor and tracking are withheld. The UMC folks will find the rigor outside of school. The kid without resources for whom education is the key to escaping generational poverty is punished because some loudmouth, virtue signaling, SJW decided that punishing capable kids who lack resources is the only way to ensure everyone knows they are "allies". Allies to generational poverty I would argue. |
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You make good points but are painting the picture with too broad a brush. DC public schools do provide rigor, but not consistently, particularly in the system's comprehensive by-right middle schools, including Deal and Hardy.
As things stand, at DCI, IBD for all waters down academics to the point that the most highly competitive colleges are essentially out of reach for DCI students who aren't both excellent students with impressive EC accomplishments and URMs. But there's a caveat. If high SES White and Asian families pay tens of thousands of dollars for enrichment, ECs and test prep over the years, they may be able to stay in the elite colleges game. |
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Elite colleges is too general a term.
Substitute Ivy-Plus colleges (generally understood to be Ivies, top 10 SLACs, Univ of Chicago, Duke, Stanford, MIL, Caltech, maybe a few more). |
Besides BASIS, name one school that provides across the board rigor. |
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I don't get this question when nobody on this thread has claimed that any DC public middle school provides rigor across the board. One of my children was fairly bored at BASIS in English classes and seriously bored in required language classes that were ridiculously easy. BASIS doesn't even permit language study before 8th grade, and then only at the beginning level. My other child was bored in most classes at DCI. We moved on to a parochial school where the kids are bored in math. Pick your poison I guess.
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Lots to unpack there. I am happy you found a good school for your kid. I am confused as to why you are having a difficult time following the thread here. Even more so why you are still trolling these forums. |