Physical appearance of opposite sex that can turn you off?

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Fake tits


Yes. Thank you. Please don't. No matter how small, natural is best.


+1


+2. Exception for medical reasons, like breast cancer survivors.


Of course.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Cankles - total deal breaker



Damnit!!!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Men that look wormy and soft. The kind who could be okay looking except they have pudge and a pallor to their face that makes them look like they never eat vegetables or go outside. It's hard to say exactly but just the shlubby kind of dude who wears untucked tshirts only and looks like his wife has to remind him to shower.


This triggers me only when accompanied by a mean attitude, like they're angry at the world or owed something. They scare me. A schlubby, lovable dude who's academic or nerdy? Swoon!!!! Pudge or no pudge, when you look like you're committed to something, I dig it!!

I think schlubby dads who seem really keen on their wives and kids are adorable.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Men that look wormy and soft. The kind who could be okay looking except they have pudge and a pallor to their face that makes them look like they never eat vegetables or go outside. It's hard to say exactly but just the shlubby kind of dude who wears untucked tshirts only and looks like his wife has to remind him to shower.


This triggers me only when accompanied by a mean attitude, like they're angry at the world or owed something. They scare me. A schlubby, lovable dude who's academic or nerdy? Swoon!!!! Pudge or no pudge, when you look like you're committed to something, I dig it!!

I think schlubby dads who seem really keen on their wives and kids are adorable.


+1
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Men that look wormy and soft. The kind who could be okay looking except they have pudge and a pallor to their face that makes them look like they never eat vegetables or go outside. It's hard to say exactly but just the shlubby kind of dude who wears untucked tshirts only and looks like his wife has to remind him to shower.


This triggers me only when accompanied by a mean attitude, like they're angry at the world or owed something. They scare me. A schlubby, lovable dude who's academic or nerdy? Swoon!!!! Pudge or no pudge, when you look like you're committed to something, I dig it!!

I think schlubby dads who seem really keen on their wives and kids are adorable.


+1


Wasn't there a woman on here gushing about a schlubby guy she met a number of months ago? Schlubby guys try harder.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Men that look wormy and soft. The kind who could be okay looking except they have pudge and a pallor to their face that makes them look like they never eat vegetables or go outside. It's hard to say exactly but just the shlubby kind of dude who wears untucked tshirts only and looks like his wife has to remind him to shower.


This triggers me only when accompanied by a mean attitude, like they're angry at the world or owed something. They scare me. A schlubby, lovable dude who's academic or nerdy? Swoon!!!! Pudge or no pudge, when you look like you're committed to something, I dig it!!

I think schlubby dads who seem really keen on their wives and kids are adorable.


+1


Wasn't there a woman on here gushing about a schlubby guy she met a number of months ago? Schlubby guys try harder.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Cankles - total deal breaker



Damnit!!!


Lol
Anonymous
goatee man and ponytail man. If they don't brush their teeth and their breath smells like they've been chewing little pieces of shit all day. If they don't shower once a day at least. If they have a huge gut.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:goatee man and ponytail man. If they don't brush their teeth and their breath smells like they've been chewing little pieces of shit all day. If they don't shower once a day at least. If they have a huge gut.


What is it with women disliking goatees? Im clean shaved but isnt facial hair a natural thing,same with hair on the head.to each their own but i really dont get it.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:goatee man and ponytail man. If they don't brush their teeth and their breath smells like they've been chewing little pieces of shit all day. If they don't shower once a day at least. If they have a huge gut.


What is it with women disliking goatees? Im clean shaved but isnt facial hair a natural thing,same with hair on the head.to each their own but i really dont get it.


So is armpit hair, facial hair, and leg hair on women but we still have to shave it off
Anonymous
You dont have to shave it off, most simply choose to do so .
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Males

Hair. I do not find thinning hair or baldness offensive. But I do mind -
1) Dandruff
2) Unkempt greasy hair
3) Comb over
4) Dye jobs with roots showing. Or skunk hair (1/2 dyed and the 1/2 new growth).

Body. I do not find a bit of pudge offensive. But I do mind -
1) Man-boobs, fat under the arms.
2) Hard beer belly
3) Muffing tops
4) Excessive weight - also on back and neck
5) Bow legs, Pigeon toes, knock knees

Grooming
1) Body odor
2) Stinky breath, yellow teeth, plaque
3) Underarm sweat stains on shirts
4) Dirty, long nails, cuticles that need trimming
5) Foot odor, nail fungus,
6) Skin conditions like acne etc.
7) Untrimmed nose hair, ear hair, and unibrow


Personal habits
1) Sniffling, blowing nose loudly, coughing and sneezing without covering up properly
2) Farting
3) Burping loudly
4) Talking with mouth full
5) Spit flying from mouth when they talk
6) Trying to read your smartphone, computer monitor etc
7) Picking nose.
8) Not tipping and other cheapskate habits. Generally being a jerk.
9) Scratching their balls.

Clothing
1) Pants hanging below belts
2) Hipster clothing
3) Unbuttoned shirt with chest hair showing Or worse - buttons unbuttoned at the bottom and the hairy stomach hanging out from top of the belt.
4) Socks and sandals
5) Baggy backside and weird crumples on waist, when men lose weight but still wear larger sized pants and cinch it at the waist.


That's a big list. I never had even thought of pigeon toes. That's getting pretty nit picky.


I don't know, most of it seems fairly reasonable, and a lot of it is hygiene/manners issues. Like picking your nose and coughing into the air instead of the crook of your elbow, not showering/deoderizing regularly. Yuck. No reason to not be polite and brush your teeth and hair before you leave the house, now, is there?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:A man who chews with his mouth open. I broke off a relationship over this. There was no polite way of saying "That's disgusting, I can see your chewed food in your mouth". There were other issues too,


Did Dan Savage answer your question on the college tour?

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Only attracted to beauty contest/prom queen/homecoming queen/cheerleader/bikini contest types. Love the big hair, hourglass figure. Love a thick core. Big eyes , high pitched voice. I'm picky.


I like fake tits too.


I notice west coast or florida women aspire to have the biggest tits and thinnest body while east coast or those from north carolina and further north love curvy bodies and love round butts
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Only attracted to beauty contest/prom queen/homecoming queen/cheerleader/bikini contest types. Love the big hair, hourglass figure. Love a thick core. Big eyes , high pitched voice. I'm picky.


I like fake tits too.


I notice west coast or florida women aspire to have the biggest tits and thinnest body while east coast or those from north carolina and further north love curvy bodies and love round butts


You're a moron. Most women I know in Cali are super fit - not thin. Many moved there because they love the outdoor and an athletic lifestyle.

I'm so embarrassed for you. North Carolina and curvy. Hysterical.

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