What's your name, kookoobird? |
| I've seen many circs of older boys and men at the hospital and compare it to circs of newborns. It's definitely a more complicated procedure in older boys/ men (about 100 times harder, involving many stitches, pain etc.) whereas in newborns it is relatively easy. Don't have any boys myself but would probably circ if I did because of the health benefits and small risks involved, and even the pain if it lasted days is always forgotten. |
Is this just a troll I'm falling for or are you for real with this goofy stuff? Did you read? We were inclined to circumcise because I was leaning against but not totally and my husband was initially all for it. We went in to discuss it, told my OB (No idea what his opinion is of AAP, I'm sure he respects his colleagues, who agreed with him at that time btw!) we were weighing the options, and he volunteered his opinion. You are a rude person and I have no idea why you're calling me names. I think you are way overinvested in what other people are doing with their kids penises. |
Thank you. This is how I feel, exactly. |
There ARE studies. The anti-circ audience dismisses them because they are observational and not randomized control studies. But it's impossible to randomly assign people in the us to get circumcised or to be in a control. Only really possible in places like Africa. |
Quiet does not equal fine. "Falling asleep" can be shock. |
I'm wondering where this Pediatrician works. So I can avoid that office. Circ don't circ but don't tell me that shit doesn't hurt. |
My boys' dicks were healed in a day or so and isn't fuss at all--even when unknowing friend baby wiped fresh wound. I was there too--very quick and one didn't cry. The other just a few seconds. Anti-circ like to make a big deal where there isn't. |
I find it disturbing that you are using the work "dick" to describe a child's penis. |
Exactly--which is why the argument of leaving it to a kid to do it when he's adult is ridiculous. Either do it as a newborn or forget about it. After 30 years of strep infections there is a reason I didnt get my tonsils out as an adult. The procedure is much less complicated and less painful as a young child. This is proven given the anstomy and changes as you grow. |
Blow me. |
| I have been following this thread for a while (when I should have been working) and even posted once, but some of the rhetoric coming from both camps reminds me of this one time a few years ago when I was walking on the National Mall. Right next to the Reflecting Pool there was this group of protesters holding signs saying things like "Cicumcision is child abuse". So I walk up to them and I say: "Look, I agree with you. It is a painful procedure with unproven medical benefits and performing it routinely on all newborns makes about as much sense as cutting everyone's tonsils out. But there is a war going on (Iraq). There is an idiot (G.W. Bush) in office. You managed to get a permit to be in this place, in the middle of the Cherry Blossom Festival, where you will be seen by millions upon millions of people, and this is what you are choosing to protest?" "Ah, but ask yourself, " said the man holding the sign, " who is waging wars in the world right now? USA, Israel, and the Arab nations. All of them circumcised! What better proof do you need that it causes permanent psychological damage?" |
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An adult can:
a) choose to have it done b) understand what is going on and why c) have more complete pain relief both during and after d) have the "correct" amount of foreskin amputated -- in infants it is really guesswork as to how much foreskin they'll need as an adult for an erection. Thus the change where they remove less these days. No guesswork with an adult. |
Oh yes, so when babies are sleeping they are in shock. I was in the hospital when both of my nephews were circumcized years ago. They went out of the room for no longer than 15-20 minutes, came back all swaddled, looked around and were calm as can be. They are both about middle school now and are amazing kids, well adjusted, well liked, great atheletes and awesome in school. Sorry, as much as you want to believe they were "in shock" they just weren't. Don't make up stuff that isn't so. And this is coming from someone who isn't pro or con circumcision. I believe each family should do what's best for them.
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It's ridiculous to say the argument is ridiculous. In most cultures of the world that practice male circumcision, it is done in teenagers/ young adults. An ex had it done as an adult (no medical problems, just encouraged by well-meaning RN sister), and there were no complications, he wasn't traumatized. But it was his choice. I'd rather that DS make that decision for himself, than resent me for authorizing an irreversible circumcision. These men do: "Mom, Why Did You Circumcise Me?" http://topdocumentaryfilms.com/mom-why-did-you-circumcise-me/ |