| Hired gun college consultants and striver parents have created a rate race to get in to college. Then once they are in college, those same kids flame out because it wasn't the kid anyway. Many wind up with mental issues and imposter syndrome. Not sure what it really accomplished but they wind up with that HYP degree that they can name drop at the suburban bus stop in 20 years. |
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My kids did well in college and are very accomplished by Gen Z standards but put them in my 1980s college classes and they would have struggled mightily. Too much reading for them to handle, actual problems to solve, instead of multiple choice tests with obvious answers.
Sure kids specialize earlier now, memorize facts and figures, but often lack critical thinking skills and resilience. Like it or not standards have fallen. When everyone gets an A it is not because everyone is outstanding it is because the bar is too low to allow meaningful differentiation. |
Not really. Standards in GPA/rigor and ECs has increased because emphasis on test scores have decreased. If you think the cost of Kaplan test prep is prohibitively expensive, wait till you get the bill on an impactful EC or recruitable sport. |
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| Everyone gets As because there are buffers in place to raise scores if lower grades are earned for difficult exams. I know this first hand from my daughter’s difficult stem major at an Ivy. If the extra assignments, points and bonus questions are removed, the curve will emerge naturally. These practices begin in HS btw. |
We are at public and my kids don't get extra credits and extra assignments. A couple of retakes here and there but inconsequential. I think kids today's are expected to do so much for admission. I got into MIT, and though I like to believe I have more common sense than my 17 yo, she is way more academically accomplished than her father (harvard in 90s) was. I am sure there are students who slack and are rotten apples, but I believe this generation of college students have exceptional stress and distractions/temptations that my generation never had to deal with. My generation created tools and enable our children to use them in early years, sign them up for a competive activities from an early age, and now we blame them without taking responsibility for the things we do. (this includes climate change/the debt/etc). I hope this generation forgives |
| What is competive? |
Hit post by accident. I hope this generation forgives us. There are changes that need to be made, but I hope not one that is inappropriately reactionary and incorporates the opinion of the new generation as well. |
Parents from MIT and Harvard and the kid goes to public !. What am I missing? |
Exactly what is it that you doubt in the previous paragraph? The fact that upper middle class kids are encouraged to be more specialized and start specializing at earlier ages? The fact that upper middle class kids are more scheduled than those of previous generations? Or the fact that specialization is at odds with being a generalist? |
An understanding of regression to the mean |
| I like how my kid’s university does it. Different courses can have different grading scales, but the prof has to publish it in the syllabus at the beginning of the term. Anyone who meets criteria - whether it’s 100% or 0% of students - gets an A. |
Yes. The top 20% receive As, next 20% A-s. After that there's no cap on Bs. |
NP I have noticed this too. 2 great kids in our community in recent years, these are kids I have known since they were little. Bright kids, nice families, could have been amazing fits at great schools like Tufts, NYU, Smith, Vanderbilt, U Michigan, so many so many good options could have been amazing rites of passage for the kids. Instead parents had them tutored within an inch of their lives, put in these insane private squash/fencing coaching, had an army of consultants who started non profits for them. Both got into Ivies, they are now working for their parents or still finding their ways. College sounded hard for these kids when they should have really excelled. |
Because both of you got in based on “personalities”. |