Why do so many people put private school bumper stickers on their cars?

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Anonymous wrote:And since you are bashing on private school parents use of car stickers, go ahead and forbid us to wear clothing with logos, bags, anything that "brags" about how we decide to spend OUR own resources.

I definitely judge people for wearing and carrying things with aggressive logos

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Anonymous wrote:And since you are bashing on private school parents use of car stickers, go ahead and forbid us to wear clothing with logos, bags, anything that "brags" about how we decide to spend OUR own resources.

I definitely judge people for wearing and carrying things with aggressive logos

It increases the trade in value of their car.

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It’s bragging rights whichever way you look at it. The parent is telling the world they can afford to pay $60,000 a year for private school. Or that their child is so superior they made it through a tough admissions process. This isn’t remotely the same as the kids themselves wearing a t-shirt with the school name or logo. The parents don’t even attend the school.

Signed, another private school parent who throws away all the school tat

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Anonymous wrote:It’s bragging rights whichever way you look at it. The parent is telling the world they can afford to pay $60,000 a year for private school. Or that their child is so superior they made it through a tough admissions process. This isn’t remotely the same as the kids themselves wearing a t-shirt with the school name or logo. The parents don’t even attend the school.

Signed, another private school parent who throws away all the school tat

Not every private school costs $60K a year, and not every school community is about being elite or difficult to join.
Does OP mean, why do the Big3 have families who put Big3 bumper stickers on their cars?

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Anonymous wrote:It’s bragging rights whichever way you look at it. The parent is telling the world they can afford to pay $60,000 a year for private school. Or that their child is so superior they made it through a tough admissions process. This isn’t remotely the same as the kids themselves wearing a t-shirt with the school name or logo. The parents don’t even attend the school.

Signed, another private school parent who throws away all the school tat

You better scratch out the logo of your car too. How dare you brag how much you spent on it!

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My kids go to a non-elite private and it is nice to pull into the parking lot at Jim Bob's Trampoline Park and Rifle Range, look at the bumper stickers, and know that we're at the correct place for Divya Zhang's birthday party.

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I cannot believe this thread is so long.

Why would anyone care either way if someone else puts a (public or private) school magnet or sticker on a car?

Do whatever makes you happy. It's your car. I don't care either way.

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Anonymous wrote:And since you are bashing on private school parents use of car stickers, go ahead and forbid us to wear clothing with logos, bags, anything that "brags" about how we decide to spend OUR own resources.

I definitely judge people for wearing and carrying things with aggressive logos

And nobody cares. Live and let live. You will feel lighter and not be so uptight.

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Anonymous wrote:In England people wear ties that signify what university they went to, please. The ties are also coded so only people who know know.

When I was a child, my dad wouldn’t let me put a school decal on our car, because he thought it looked like bragging. Now I let my kids, because who cares what triggers adult strangers with confidence issues.

Seriously. I really love when the posters show up acting like this is a US-only thing. Sure, maybe people in the UK don't use bumper stickers, but they sure as heck have ways of broadcasting their membership in the elite. You want to see elitism in education, try France! Basically every European country has a separate elite track for education and they have their subtle ways of telling everyone else they're in it.

This. We are just more direct and open about it as a culture (or tacky and ostentatious for those who sneer at the U.S. way). It's like the old money new money or city slicker country bumpkin dynamic. The elitism and exclusivity "I'm better than you" is universal, but just manifests differently. We are a car culture where much public interaction is on the roads, so there's that.

Compared to who? I see lots of brand names and logos outside the US. More than I see in the US. It's ok to wear the shirt, shoes, belts, pants, purses, scarves and hats but gee don't put a label on your car! I would say many more people outside the US are brand conscious even if they are wearing fakes.

Accoutrements like brand clothing, luxury goods, and car magnets are signs of a society with social mobility. People broadcast their status to signal to others who might not know just by looking at them. If everyday life is in a walkable urban society without a car, a car decal does no good. Coded language, posh accents, attire, and other trappings of wealth and superiority are required for those settings. Tomato Tomahto

+1

The Brits are probably the snobbiest culture on the planet.

But wealthy Brits all want to come to the US. MC folks in the US live like UMC folks in the UK. UC folks here are out of reach for most Brits. DH is UMC Brit, just as I come from a UMC American family - our lifestyles were not the same and he feels out of his depth in some of our social circles. It just is.

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We are a Big3 school and we don’t put any sticker on the car. Hard working and high achieving and neighbors with the 1% and we raise our kids to be humble . We love Costco clothing and its comfort and we don’t show off and have nothing to prove to anyone. Bumper stickers and brands show off is a sign of insecurity. No one really cares.

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We like the school where we send our kids. The magnet came in the swag pack years ago and has been on the car ever since. I do like seeing other magnets “in the wild” and it’s nbd when I see other people with stickers or magnets from other schools.

Maybe generationally wealthy OP can use their money to help solve some major issues in this country versus obsessing about car magnets on DCUM.

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Anonymous wrote:I cannot believe this thread is so long.

Why would anyone care either way if someone else puts a (public or private) school magnet or sticker on a car?

Do whatever makes you happy. It's your car. I don't care either way.

I have kids in public and private. Our public gave us a free magnet years ago and I put it on my car. I’m pretty sure my then 5 year old stuck it on my car.

People used to put college magnets on their car. I see people put their swim team or other sports. I really don’t care.

One of my kids used to make us put a sticker on our car to pass security without stopping.

I have not stuck anything on my car for a long time.

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Affluent Americans are weird.

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Anonymous wrote:Affluent Americans are weird.

Which AA group are you dog whistling with this statement?

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Anonymous wrote:The reason is that schools has some of the features of a country club and people like to signal that they are part of the club.

It also happens with clothing. Why do people buy famous brands ?

I was going to say, people like OP who are Big Mad about private school stickers must be the same people who are Big Mad about the Rolex on my wrist.

Ironically I (OP) send my kids to private and wear a Rolex

To be fair, I bought the Rolex 20 years ago when I thought money and material goods were the path to happiness. I'm glad I did though because I still enjoy wearing it (and it's a good reminder of how inevitably fleeting the dopamine hit from a new purchase will be)

You mean coincidentally. That isn’t ironic.