You can choose when to practice your instrument or which plays to audition for. I have a friend in NYC with a musical theatre kid who auditions for Broadway workshops, plays and filming mostly in the summer to avoid interference with school work during the school year. In contrast, if you play on a team, your schedule is dictated by your league and you have zero say when you can practice and compete. DC has had games the night before important exams and has to deal. My niece doesn't touch her instrument before big deadlines and tests and then makes up for it another weekend. |
| The culture of youth sports has morphed way past the original concept of sound mind, sound body as it was meant to be, in the old days of the “gentleman scholar”. the level of time required to achieve recruitable levels of athletic achievement has gotten so extreme that it often prevents kids from developing their academic skills. not to say most kids wouldn’t have been smart enough to, but just didn’t have the time. |
| Also tall does not automatically equate to good looking. |
If you sign up for a theater crew or an orchestra or choir or dance team, your schedule is also dictated by them. And there are recruited sports which don't require joining a team, like track. This seems like a post-hoc justification, and a poor one at that. |
Your niece obviously is not a real musician. They have to practice daily, often for 2 hours. |
This isn’t that hard to understand. Encourage your kids to get involved in sports. When they excel at academics and athletics, they will be successful with many of their college apps. |