I think the article has so many flaws it’s maddening. How many homeowner Boomers actually have mortgages? Many paid off their homes in the late 90s and eat 2000s. What about GenX? No one ever talks about us? We’re the ones who will inherit the Boomer $$$ - millennials and GenZ are the boomer’s grandchildren. That wealth may have gone to Boomers for a few decades, but a lot of it will not be transferred to heirs. It will be consumed by healthcare and nursing homes. Finally, Boomers may have a lot of equity in their homes, but as a generation they are more likely to have a pension than a 401k and many didn’t save much because they thought SS and Medicare would cover them. |
| What do you suggest op? Attesputa? |
This whole stereotyping people by using slang like Gen X or boomer is kind of dumb. (Not you pp). A portion of Boomers were born in the early 1960s. A portion of Gen X were born in the late 1960s. Siblings all born in the 1960s are not from different generations. The older “boomers” grew up with turmoil. Kennedy murdered, MLK murdered, civil rights fighting, riots were common, 50,000 of them dead in Vietnam. People don’t dictate what’s going on during their time growing up. |
I don’t think most people are disputing the legality of it. I think most people who are against the concept think the law should be changed. And I think, for a lot of us, the cost of childcare doesn’t carry a lot of weight (I had my first child in my senior year of college, so trust me I sympathize with the cost). I think there can be exceptions, like significant care for a child with disabilities, not otherwise I think social security should be earned through paid labor. I do not think the historical reasons for allowing a spouse to get social security apply in today’s society. Or if it does, let the working spouse who does the majority of the household work apply both as an individual and a spouse. FWIW I also find this argument about household labor a bit at odds with the argument I also see from SAH spouses that the role of a SAH spouse is to raise kids, not maintain the household. |
If you think that attitude is emblematic of SAHMs, it just means you only know wealthy SAHMs. Who don't need the SS to begin with. It sounds like you know a few entitled SAHMs and can't stand the idea of them getting this benefit, so you assume the whole program is broken. I don't really get your objection. Spousal benefit is only available to people with so little working history that they don't qualify for SS on their own. That's honestly not that many people at this point. And it would include people who got pregnant before they could get a college (or sometimes even high school) degree and who may have been discouraged from working. It also covers people who may live in depressed areas with poor job prospects, and who may SAHM because they simply cannot find a job that pays enough to cover childcare. It also covers people who may be in abusive relationships where their spouse will not allow them to work. And so on. The number of high net worth couples who would qualify for the program is very low because they would need to marry really young. Most SAHMs with wealthy DHs I know are college grads who worked in reasonably high paying jobs before becoming a SAHM. I'd be find saying that if your household income is above a certain amount, you don't qualify, but I'd guess that rich people would object and they are more politically powerful. I'd rather a few rich SAHMs get the spousal benefit than remove it altogether. It protects vulnerable people, mostly women. And it acknowledges that in a family where one spouse works and the other stays home, most of the time the one staying home is also working, just not for a salary. Most SAHMs are not outsourcing all their household tasks. |
| The above isn’t exactly true. A spouse can take spousal social security (50% of their spouse’s amount) even if they DO qualify on their own but their amount is lower. |
Boomers got to enjoy 9% - 12% mortgage rates 30 year ago. But Boomers saved nest eggs road the stock market up, and the housing market up and the government handed out tax deductions for dependents like it was water. Public schools were free, now Millenials are sad having to wait to inherit all that Boomer money. |
Boomers didn't get much from the generation before them. People had big families so paying for college, weddings or inheritance was slim pickens when splitting it between 6-8 kids. Also Boomers work, save, invest, work, save, invest. Millenials work, borrow, spend, whine, work, borrow, spend, whine. |
You are talking about a small segment of older boomers. I’m a young boomer. My children are millennials. The youngest is borderline Gen Z. No pension. Didn’t buy my current house until the late 90s, at 7-8% interest. Paid off my mortgage a couple of years ago. Have saved like crazy, put my kids through college and grad school debt free. And inherited nothing because my silent generation parents are still alive. That’s true for many boomers between 60-70. Hard to paint everyone with a broad brush. |
I don’t think you understand how auxiliary benefits work. Also you misinterpreted my final comment. It wasn’t about outsourcing tasks; it was about the statement, which you repeated about, that a SAH parents value for completing household chores is worthy of monetary acknowledgment. That is a privileged view; most dual income households with kids under 18 aren’t outsourcing household tasks - they are doing all of them in addition to working FT. |
This. 49 year old Gen-Xer here who has a 2.5% rate. My boomer parents paid off their house years ago but guess who also has a 2% rate on their mortgage? All my millennial neighbors who bought their homes for $650K and up over the last 5 years. My millennial friend and her husband 2 yrs ago upgraded from a townhouse to a SFH, locked in a similar rate, while now making rental income on their townhouse. |
Did your mom work full time? Doing what? |
Way to overgeneralize- my parents didn't remotely save enough to fund their retirement, so we'll probably end up supporting them eventually. They didn't save anything for college either so we all had loans- it was fine, we paid them off, but we (on the Gen-X-millennial cusp) to save for our retirement and children's education rather than repeat their mistakes. |
The bolded isn't true in most cases. Some older Boomers have Gen X kids but mostly Gen X's parents are Silent Generation and millennials parents are mostly Boomers. "Echo Boomer" was an early name for the generation before we settled on millennial. I'm a millennial and my parents were 1949 and 1951 birthdates definitely Boomers. |
boomer road the stock market for 30+ years. Millennials have another 20 years to ride that stock market. Give it time. You are comparing 30/40 yr olds to 60/70 olds in terms of wealth. That's silly. It's like when some 30 something yr old woman who came to my house (kids were friends) and compared their lives to ours. We are like 10+ yrs older than they are. Of course we have more wealth. We had more time to accumulate that wealth. |