OPs kid won’t take a bottle either. It’s just as easy as pump. |
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NOBODY SUGGESTED A FEEDING TUBE. |
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I haven’t gotten to the end of this thread but OP, my 1st had major latch issues and tore my nipples to shreds. It was terrible. I cried, he cried, my DH was distraught. I ended up doing a lot of what you are doing. Pumping around the clock, trying the nipple shield and syringe feeding.
After lots of back and forth, it was determined that he did in fact have a small tongue tie that was impacting his latch. The ENT refused to clip it though because he said it wasn’t that bad despite all of our troubles. By the time he was 6-7 weeks, his mouth had gotten bigger and stronger and he started latching like a champ. I nursed him until he was 2. He refused a bottle from me but would take one at daycare or from DH as long as I wasn’t in the house. Just wanted to share. You can get through this. You are doing an amazing job mama! |
| Any updates, OP? |
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OP here. He is taking a bottle and doing a little better on the breast. We had the bottles come in on Sunday and started offering them to him throughout the day. He rejected the MAM, Munhkin, and Tommee Tippee buy he did take the Comotomo and Nanobebe. He is taking up to 1oz at some nursing sessions. I tried different positions and have been using the latch assist to pop my nipple out. He doesn’t love the bottle but he has been gradually taking drinking more milk out of it. He started with sipping some out and just sucking, then .5, and then 1oz. We have been able to get him to eat 2oz twice when he was really sleepy at night. We are still syringe feeding but working towards switching him to the bottle and breast. We had a lactation consultant come this morning who told me about other nipple shields and gave me tips for positions. She said she believed he has a tongue tie. We went to his pediatrician appointment and the pediatrician listened and examined and said he also agrees he has a tongue tie. We have an appointment later this week with an ENT to be evaluated. He is very happy with my sons weight. He has gained almost 1lb in two weeks. We have worked out a plan with the lactation consultant where I will nurse first and then syringe feed or bottle feed. She said I can put him on the breast for comfort nursing but I do not need to keep him on all day long. The pediatrician said to keep feeding him every two hours until his tongue tie is corrected and we are sure he will be able to gain weight with nursing and bottle feeding. |
| OP I am SO happy you are making progress. I had posted earlier about having to spoonfeed my son for the first few weeks but haven’t been able to keep up with the thread. BTW the breastfeeding center has virtual support groups that I highly recommend. https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?appointmentType=10978605&owner=18081780 |
| This is positive news, OP! Hang in there. We are cheering for you and your baby. |
I'm not any of the posters quoted here, but actually, someone did recommend a feeding tube on the first page. Here's the post:
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It was very clear that that person was referring to using a feeding tube as an makeshift SNS. Hence the reference to getting one from an LC. So no , no one was recommending using a feeding tube as a nasogastric feeding tube just as something that could take the place of an commercial SNS system. To actually start using a feeding tube as an NG tube you would have to see a physician. |
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You are doing great OP. Well done. Both my kids had feeding issues too, so I know it is exhausting and stressful. The doctors will help you figure it out, and it will get easier.
One of mine turned out to have nerve damage at a part of the mouth needed for sucking, the other turned out to be low tone, so he was a very slow and inefficient nurser. So many different things make each baby unique. Trust your own instincts. You know your baby best. Block out the mean people on here who haven't experienced your specific child. |
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Tongue-tie can sometimes make it harder for babies to feed. It can affect both bottle-fed and breastfed babies. Some babies with a tongue tie breastfeed well from the start; others do so when positioning and attachment are improved. But any tongue tie that restricts normal tongue movement can lead to breastfeeding difficulties. Check out the symptoms of tongue-tie and make sure your LO doesn't have it.
https://www.milltowndental.com/laser-dentistry/tongue-tie-laser-frenectomy/ |
OP here. We saw the ENT and he did have a tongue tie. The ENT performed a laser treatment and said he should be fine in a couple of days. We plan to see a pediatric dentist next week to ensure things are healing and everything is normal. We are still working the lactation consultant. He has so far been taking a bottle with ease and we only syringe feed 1-2 times a day now. He started taking in more food ( 3oz) at some feeds and will sometimes go 2.5-3 hours in between feedings. He is still not nursing super well but we will be working on that with the lactation consultant. |
Yay!!! So happy to hear this, OP! |