Bennifer Revisited

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:She’s going on and on about how they’ve evolved as a couple since their first engagement, and it’s clear that every word is crafted for public consumption; between that and showing off her giant ring, there’s zero humility and it feels like she is in la-la land. I like Ben Affleck and admire his openness about his addiction but are his very real struggles magically erased in this story they are spinning? How about the fact that weeks before she got together with Affleck, she was engaged to someone else?

Again, there’s reality and there is social media la-la land and there is often a pretty big divide between the two.

I find it interesting that Affleck blamed the media for things ending last time. But this round has been nothing but media updates from them.

Ben Affleck went on daily pap walks with Ana de Armas, so this isn't exactly new for him.

Oh no! I wasn't blaming Jen. I just find it funny that was his excuse for the original split and it seems like nothing has changed.

Their both love attention!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Apparently, Ben proposed while Jen was taking a bubble bath!

https://pagesix.com/2022/04/12/ben-affleck-proposed-to-jennifer-lopez-when-she-was-in-the-bath/?utm_source=twitter_sitebuttons&utm_medium=site%20buttons&utm_campaign=site%20buttons

Why would she share that? Her image is everything to her.

They both love attention. Which is why I can see this working out. Nothing is private.

[Anonymous]

I don't dislike JLo, but it's like she never matured past the age of sixteen.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don't dislike JLo, but it's like she never matured past the age of sixteen.

Agree....and like a 1980's sixteen not even a current sixteen. I think they tend to be much more realistic about relationships. She lives in a romantic fantasy and has difficulty being alone. In that way she is very dated and sort of desperate despite the persona of being a strong independent woman. I just don't think that's true. Interestingly, I also noticed she declared, "I'm engaged!" as opposed to "We're engaged!" Interesting slip.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She’s going on and on about how they’ve evolved as a couple since their first engagement, and it’s clear that every word is crafted for public consumption; between that and showing off her giant ring, there’s zero humility and it feels like she is in la-la land. I like Ben Affleck and admire his openness about his addiction but are his very real struggles magically erased in this story they are spinning? How about the fact that weeks before she got together with Affleck, she was engaged to someone else?

Again, there’s reality and there is social media la-la land and there is often a pretty big divide between the two.

I find it interesting that Affleck blamed the media for things ending last time. But this round has been nothing but media updates from them.

Ben Affleck went on daily pap walks with Ana de Armas, so this isn't exactly new for him.

Oh no! I wasn't blaming Jen. I just find it funny that was his excuse for the original split and it seems like nothing has changed.

Their both love attention!

Even by celebrity standards, they are both deeply self involved.

[Anonymous]

I think the only reason JLo got back with Ben to get back at A-Rod. It is all to make him jealous. She takes insecurity and vindictiveness to a new level. She is also self-absorbed and should be more focused on her kids. They had really bonded with A-Rod and his kids. She thought A-Rod cheated on her or at best looked at another woman, which is enough to send JLo careening off the edge.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think the only reason JLo got back with Ben to get back at A-Rod. It is all to make him jealous. She takes insecurity and vindictiveness to a new level. She is also self-absorbed and should be more focused on her kids. They had really bonded with A-Rod and his kids. She thought A-Rod cheated on her or at best looked at another woman, which is enough to send JLo careening off the edge.

+1

[Anonymous]

JLo and ARod even looked better together. Affleck looks like a homeless bum.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think the only reason JLo got back with Ben to get back at A-Rod. It is all to make him jealous. She takes insecurity and vindictiveness to a new level. She is also self-absorbed and should be more focused on her kids. They had really bonded with A-Rod and his kids. She thought A-Rod cheated on her or at best looked at another woman, which is enough to send JLo careening off the edge.

A 50+ woman being engaged twice in such a short period is just sad. She is so desperate for a fairy tale.
The thing is that she did have a beautiful wedding, a marriage, and children with Marc Anthony, who was crazy about her when they got together. That's a fairy tale by celebrity standards.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don't dislike JLo, but it's like she never matured past the age of sixteen.

Agree....and like a 1980's sixteen not even a current sixteen. I think they tend to be much more realistic about relationships. She lives in a romantic fantasy and has difficulty being alone. In that way she is very dated and sort of desperate despite the persona of being a strong independent woman. I just don't think that's true. Interestingly, I also noticed she declared, "I'm engaged!" as opposed to "We're engaged!" Interesting slip.

+1 very

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think the only reason JLo got back with Ben to get back at A-Rod. It is all to make him jealous. She takes insecurity and vindictiveness to a new level. She is also self-absorbed and should be more focused on her kids. They had really bonded with A-Rod and his kids. She thought A-Rod cheated on her or at best looked at another woman, which is enough to send JLo careening off the edge.

A 50+ woman being engaged twice in such a short period is just sad. She is so desperate for a fairy tale.
The thing is that she did have a beautiful wedding, a marriage, and children with Marc Anthony, who was crazy about her when they got together. That's a fairy tale by celebrity standards.

I don’t know why she broke up with Marc Anthony. Apparently A Rod did cheat though. Not just rumors though.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think the only reason JLo got back with Ben to get back at A-Rod. It is all to make him jealous. She takes insecurity and vindictiveness to a new level. She is also self-absorbed and should be more focused on her kids. They had really bonded with A-Rod and his kids. She thought A-Rod cheated on her or at best looked at another woman, which is enough to send JLo careening off the edge.

A 50+ woman being engaged twice in such a short period is just sad. She is so desperate for a fairy tale.
The thing is that she did have a beautiful wedding, a marriage, and children with Marc Anthony, who was crazy about her when they got together. That's a fairy tale by celebrity standards.

I don’t know why she broke up with Marc Anthony. Apparently A Rod did cheat though. Not just rumors though.

PP -- I think MA cheated as well.
Still, I'm not sure what she's chasing. Of course it's great to find love again, but she's obviously looking for more than that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think the only reason JLo got back with Ben to get back at A-Rod. It is all to make him jealous. She takes insecurity and vindictiveness to a new level. She is also self-absorbed and should be more focused on her kids. They had really bonded with A-Rod and his kids. She thought A-Rod cheated on her or at best looked at another woman, which is enough to send JLo careening off the edge.

A 50+ woman being engaged twice in such a short period is just sad. She is so desperate for a fairy tale.
The thing is that she did have a beautiful wedding, a marriage, and children with Marc Anthony, who was crazy about her when they got together. That's a fairy tale by celebrity standards.

I don’t know why she broke up with Marc Anthony. Apparently A Rod did cheat though. Not just rumors though.

PP -- I think MA cheated as well.
Still, I'm not sure what she's chasing. Of course it's great to find love again, but she's obviously looking for more than that.

Right and likely a better chance of success if she goes after someone who’s not an actor/singer with women throwing themselves at them all the time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:JLo and ARod even looked better together. Affleck looks like a homeless bum.

Benny Boy is an alkie. He has been to rehab 3 times. He probably hits the bottle now and then and his face gets really red and he looks bloated.

The rehab in Malibu he went to is beautiful. I am considering becoming a drunk so I can go there for a few weeks. I want to get some hot stone massages, swim in the pool, and go to the beach. The only problem is its expensive and I have no dinero.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think the only reason JLo got back with Ben to get back at A-Rod. It is all to make him jealous. She takes insecurity and vindictiveness to a new level. She is also self-absorbed and should be more focused on her kids. They had really bonded with A-Rod and his kids. She thought A-Rod cheated on her or at best looked at another woman, which is enough to send JLo careening off the edge.

A 50+ woman being engaged twice in such a short period is just sad. She is so desperate for a fairy tale.
The thing is that she did have a beautiful wedding, a marriage, and children with Marc Anthony, who was crazy about her when they got together. That's a fairy tale by celebrity standards.

I don’t know why she broke up with Marc Anthony. Apparently A Rod did cheat though. Not just rumors though.

PP -- I think MA cheated as well.
Still, I'm not sure what she's chasing. Of course it's great to find love again, but she's obviously looking for more than that.

Right and likely a better chance of success if she goes after someone who’s not an actor/singer with women throwing themselves at them all the time.

+1 She has such poor judgment for someone who has been to the rodeo for this long. It's really something. She is i think, very very willful and grandiose, hence she thinks she can handle and or change troubled people. She cannot learn, I see it as an extension of her narcissism.