Would you marry someone who's been divorced 3 times already???

Anonymous
I'm interested in your thoughts.
Anonymous
Nope, never, no way, no how.

I am married, but if I were single, I would prefer to date someone who had either never been divorced or, a most, had been divorced only once. If they had been divorced, I'd need to know the reason for the divorce, what they'd learned from it, how they'd changed, and what they were doing differently in new relationships. If my husband and I divorced, I would remarry at most once more (maybe). If I had two divorces under my belt, I'd take it as a sign that marriage is something I'm not good at and need to leave alone.

Someone who has been divorced three times has proven that marriage isn't for them. I wouldn't even date someone who'd been divorced three times.
Anonymous
no
Anonymous
Wasn't that in Friends? Jennifer Aniston's beau, whatshisname?
Anonymous
HELL no.
Anonymous
In my loudest voice ever: NO!!!!!!
If you already have kids, and/or don't want any, don't get married. and esp to someone who has failed three times at this flawed institution.

Signed,
Someone headed for divorce after 20 years together.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I'm interested in your thoughts.


What happened to first three? If they all died, I would very suspicious. If all three are divorces, he is a 3-time loser. No, I wouldn't even go out with him.
Anonymous
NO! Probably not what you want to hear but clearly there are long-term commitment issues.
Anonymous
no
Anonymous
nope.
Anonymous
Not even if he was rich AND he cleaned.
Anonymous
My former brother-in-law is preparing to marry his three-times already married girlfriend. When her divorce is final.

Anonymous
no way.
Anonymous
OP here: I'm not dating the guy, but my GF is. All three are divorces.
Anonymous
He'll to the no!
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