Bennifer Revisited

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If JLo posted anonymously on DCUM and asked about whether she should get back with an old flame, and described everything, what would DCUM say?

Is her net worth still the same?

I’d say go right ahead. The super-rich don’t have half the issues associated with infidelity because leaving a partner doesn’t make them insolvent.

Well if she described her ex as a talented, and well meaning but addicted man who was divorced, fooled around with his kids nanny (regardless of whether it was before or after his separation), and had been unable to or uninterested in holding down a long term relationship, on dcum, she’d get a lot responses of “no. He sounds unstable,” or “enjoy the fling.”

Even then we’d only be getting half the story, because she just bounced off a high profile four year relationship like a week before starting this one. And neither of them seem to care about seeing their kids regularly- after being away filming respective movies in other cities/countries, they are all wrapped up in in each other and jetting off to hotels and vacation homes. So, I’d consider her pretty unstable too.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If JLo posted anonymously on DCUM and asked about whether she should get back with an old flame, and described everything, what would DCUM say?

Is her net worth still the same?

I’d say go right ahead. The super-rich don’t have half the issues associated with infidelity because leaving a partner doesn’t make them insolvent.

Well if she described her ex as a talented, and well meaning but addicted man who was divorced, fooled around with his kids nanny (regardless of whether it was before or after his separation), and had been unable to or uninterested in holding down a long term relationship, on dcum, she’d get a lot responses of “no. He sounds unstable,” or “enjoy the fling.”

Even then we’d only be getting half the story, because she just bounced off a high profile four year relationship like a week before starting this one. And neither of them seem to care about seeing their kids regularly- after being away filming respective movies in other cities/countries, they are all wrapped up in in each other and jetting off to hotels and vacation homes. So, I’d consider her pretty unstable too.

Like I said earlier in this thread, JLo isn’t as maternal as Garner. She’s a self-absorbed diva who thrives on being adored. She will never be able to sustain a relationship since she’s only interested in the honeymoon phase.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If JLo posted anonymously on DCUM and asked about whether she should get back with an old flame, and described everything, what would DCUM say?

Is her net worth still the same?

I’d say go right ahead. The super-rich don’t have half the issues associated with infidelity because leaving a partner doesn’t make them insolvent.

Well if she described her ex as a talented, and well meaning but addicted man who was divorced, fooled around with his kids nanny (regardless of whether it was before or after his separation), and had been unable to or uninterested in holding down a long term relationship, on dcum, she’d get a lot responses of “no. He sounds unstable,” or “enjoy the fling.”

Even then we’d only be getting half the story, because she just bounced off a high profile four year relationship like a week before starting this one. And neither of them seem to care about seeing their kids regularly- after being away filming respective movies in other cities/countries, they are all wrapped up in in each other and jetting off to hotels and vacation homes. So, I’d consider her pretty unstable too.

Like I said earlier in this thread, JLo isn’t as maternal as Garner. She’s a self-absorbed diva who thrives on being adored. She will never be able to sustain a relationship since she’s only interested in the honeymoon phase.

and because she picks sh*tty partners.

[Anonymous]

JLO doesn’t seem like she likes long term relationships. Neither does he.

[Anonymous]

About 10 minutes ago she was engaged to someone else, and he was sending creepy messages on some woman's Instagram. These people are a mess.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:About 10 minutes ago she was engaged to someone else, and he was sending creepy messages on some woman's Instagram. These people are a mess.

Imagine if your mom or dad behaved this way. So embarrassing.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:They are both hot messes so good for them.

This must KILL A-Rod, because he knows that Jlo is into what’s between Ben’s ears, and A-Rod can’t compete on that front.

BWHAHAHA. Neither ARod nor Ben has much between the ears.

Neither does JLo. Did she go to college?

I don't know but she did not need to go to college. She is supporting herself and doing just fine in the financial department.

I get an inkling she has insecurity about her lack of education. Especially in her business ventures, I suspect she is exposed to very educated people...and unlike almost everything else she has acquired...it cannot be bought. Last year she started talking about her admiration for certain women in politics, she has made movies on this theme (the streetsmart underdog who rises to the top to surpass all others, etc). In her narcissism she feels she can excel in almost any arena (singing, acting, dancing) I think it kills her she is not easily accepted into elite, educated, circles. I think maybe he represents that appeal...but he has a lot of demons obviously. She wants it all...to be a flashy, exhibitionistic highly sexual entertainer and then to have the respect of thoughtful, restrained power players who view her as a serious person who is a role model for women.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:About 10 minutes ago she was engaged to someone else, and he was sending creepy messages on some woman's Instagram. These people are a mess.

Imagine if your mom or dad behaved this way. So embarrassing.

Yes...she brought her mother up on stage very recently to sing "sweet caroline" but the lyrics were changed to "sweet jennifer".

[Anonymous]

This all seems like data that has been well known about her for a long time: She cannot be alone.

[Anonymous]

This is such an obvious PR stunt. Wasn’t there a blind on this a week or two ago?

If it’s not a stunt, I have no respect for her for going from a cheater to an addict with no time in between. How about showing the world how a strong woman doesn’t need a man to make her life worthwhile, especially not a dysfunctional one!

[Anonymous]

So lame. Marc Anthony would be more believable

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It’s a publicity stunt. Surely she’s smart enough not to go from one drug-user philander to another!

1st—no she’s not actually smart enough not to do this.
2–he’s the one true love of her life. Even if she were “smart enough” to try avoid that pattern, this is the one guy in her life she’d make the exception for.

He genuinely doesn’t deserve her, but I wish her happiness.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If JLo posted anonymously on DCUM and asked about whether she should get back with an old flame, and described everything, what would DCUM say?

Is her net worth still the same?

I’d say go right ahead. The super-rich don’t have half the issues associated with infidelity because leaving a partner doesn’t make them insolvent.

Well if she described her ex as a talented, and well meaning but addicted man who was divorced, fooled around with his kids nanny (regardless of whether it was before or after his separation), and had been unable to or uninterested in holding down a long term relationship, on dcum, she’d get a lot responses of “no. He sounds unstable,” or “enjoy the fling.”

Even then we’d only be getting half the story, because she just bounced off a high profile four year relationship like a week before starting this one. And neither of them seem to care about seeing their kids regularly- after being away filming respective movies in other cities/countries, they are all wrapped up in in each other and jetting off to hotels and vacation homes. So, I’d consider her pretty unstable too.

Like I said earlier in this thread, JLo isn’t as maternal as Garner. She’s a self-absorbed diva who thrives on being adored. She will never be able to sustain a relationship since she’s only interested in the honeymoon phase.

I’d say you’re right about every other relationship but this one. Ben was definitely it for her. And when he broke it off just before the wedding she was devastated.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s a publicity stunt. Surely she’s smart enough not to go from one drug-user philander to another!

1st—no she’s not actually smart enough not to do this.
2–he’s the one true love of her life. Even if she were “smart enough” to try avoid that pattern, this is the one guy in her life she’d make the exception for.

He genuinely doesn’t deserve her, but I wish her happiness.

Yes to the above though I wish she’d give it a minute, chillax and be single, get to know yourself, work on yourself, have some carefree sex with hot men, and then and only then start dating. J Lo is talented and beautiful but she just rebounds from one man to another. Wish she’d take her time and pick someone worthy. That’s not Ben.

[Anonymous]

BENNIFER FOREVER!!