It sounds like you are blaming the counselor for not magically getting unqualified students into elite schools. The counselor can only work with what the students bring to the table. You can’t paint a turd and sell it as art. |
| It sounds like you are denying counselors do anything at all. Surely they get evaluated as well. Just because college admission may be a challenge doesn't mean the counselor could not do a better job. |
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SFS better get its act together. Of course counseling is important — guidance counselors need to use their networks and relationships too, not simply manage the traffic.
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| Sounds like the counseling staff gets none of the credit if things go well and all of the blame if things go badly. |
| Maybe for a year but not over the long term. It can't be that performance in the role is irrelevant. |
| If you think a college counselor can “work their connections” and get an undeserving kid into a top school, you’re on crack and are delusional about how the whole process works. |
"Underdeserving"? No. But tip someone over the finish line ahead of other as deserving kids...for sure. College admission, as in life, can often be all about connections and relationships. |
Yup. It leaves one speechless. |
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I'm a student at an Ivy League college who went to public school in DC. There are four kids in my class from the Big 3. Two are incredibly smart and the other two are dumbasses (i.e. bottom 20% in smarts, but excellent at partying). I doubt they would haven't gotten into this school without their Big 3 connection (and one has a relatively famous parent.)
So of course counselors matter. And, yes, connections can turn a dumbass into an Ivy Leaguer. |
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| I have a child at Sidwell—not a senior. I have no expectation that a college counselor can “get my kid in.” To me, a good counselor helps a child identify the most appropriate schools for them and helps them craft the most competitive application (in terms of how they position themselves, who they ask for rec’s, etc.) And yes, someone who helps them if they find themselves on a waitlist. I’d hope a public school counselor would help with that scenario too! Patrick Gallagher is the head of college counseling and was beloved at Georgetown Prep. I think Sidwell parents are happy with him too. If there’s someone else who is a dud, then I’m glad they’re not renewing his contract. There are a lot of legacies in my kid’s class but they’re super bright and accomplished. They likely could get in without the hook. Who knows whether they will—or will even want to apply! But of course it will help them if they do. My kid has a lot of senior friends who got into schools early. I heard several mentions of Penn, one of Harvard, two of Dartmouth, etc. I’d imagine that the class did well overall. But yes, Sidwell parents don’t really talk about this stuff with each other, and they generally tell their kids to be low key because others might be disappointed or feel anxious because they won’t know until spring where they’re going. It’s insensitive to focus on these stats with each other now. |
What is some self-described Ivy Leaguer doing reading a mommy blog?! |
Has anyone seen the new college counseling office rules? Bizarre. |
| Patrick is fantastic. Some parents at Big 3 privates are nuts. |