For some yes, for others no. It is their money to spend so why do you care? |
We are probably going to end up suggesting ds take this path from magnet MS - UMD for undergrad to save money for grad school. How has it worked out for your kids and their peers? |
I have fixed it, thanks. I don't think that. (I'm a white person.) |
Good for you white person.
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Because there is the assumption that the kids of affluent parents are overrepresented in the application magnets because the affluent parents spend money on test prep. But maybe the money spent on test prep has little or no effect on magnet admission. |
Good for me, why? Because I don't think something that I shouldn't think anyway? I'm happy to accept congratulations wherever I can get them, but that seems to me to be a very minimal accomplishment. |
Isn't it just as likely that affluence is tied to academic achievement, and that kids of such parents have both their genes and their attitude toward the value of academic achievement from a young age? |
Most of the magnet families I ran into over the years are not "poor" per se but they are certainly not "affluent" either. They are usually middle/upper middle families (but "poor" for DCUM standard). We didn't spend money on prep but I know some families did. My observation is it's less of wealth issue but more of how "involved" families are. Some families are very involved with school and resources available within MCPS and others, well, not as much. |
You can have any hypothesis you like. The question was, why is it anybody's business if people want to spend lots of money on test prep that might be useless? The answer is, because of the assumption that spending lots of money on test prep helps you get in, and so you're at a disadvantage if your family doesn't spend lots of money on test prep. |
If the bar is raised ever higher because a sizeable percentage of applicants are spending money on test prep, and then those same parents say the school system should just provide test prep to others it's probably time to care. There's no reason for this system to ratchet out of control to keep up with private tutoring. I do believe there are many kids who get into these programs without tutoring, but at some point the system isn't fair to anyone and there's just no requirement that public schools provide ever more enrichment to over-enriched kids. |
You don't hear white people complaining about that do you? Nope, because it benefits them. |
it is working out well for our two kids - both received full ride scholarships from umd. DC1 is getting his engineering phd (fully funded) @ "top 5" engineering school and DC2 wants to go to med school so we are saving 529 money for that purpose. DC2 will be able to come out of med school without debt/loan. i am 100% sure they couldn't do it without mcps magnet programs. so, yeah, it's fine. kids always have to deal with "you worked that hard for umd?" or "you settled with umd?" comments but other than that it's all good. coming out of umd with high gpa is much harder than people think. |
Thanks - this is really heartening. Congrats to your kids - they have worked really hard for their success and they sound very pragmatic. I know the Engineering program has an excellent rep. How are the pre-med majors? Has dc2 been able to do the research or internships that would help him/her apply to med school? |
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news flash no employer cares if you went to GT in elementary or a magnet in high school
quit helicoptering your special snowflake will be just fine idiots on this board |
Quit helicopt'ring Your snowflake will be just fine Idjits on this board |