Very well put. It reminds me of an Alice Waters story (that i'm sure I will garble to an extent): she was at some event that was quite long and, behind doors, the staff ordered themselves pizza. Waters saw them eating it and berated them for eating such terrible food when the food she was advocating they eat was her typical food: seasonal, fresh, organic - and, oh yes, hard to find and afford for lots of people, including the people she was berating. Anti-intellectualism is incredibly stupid, but I think it's good for those of us in a privileged bubble to know what the average American's life is like. Lots of us don't realize how fabulously lucky we are. |
So why did you eat at Roy Rogers instead of packing lunch from home? |
| I'm a life time Fairfax County resident w/ 2 vists to Ihop and Outback makes me 27. Im upper middle class but I chose not to get a ft job earlier cause school hmm i guess I chose poverty temporarily. |
| happy to have a 50. |
| I got a 35. That was interesting. |
| 36. Very interesting! |
| I find it amazing that some do not have an evangelical friend or have a friend with different political opinions. I also somewhat find it surprising that most here did not work a factory job, even if only for a summer during college or grad school. |
| 53. Dang, no wonder I'm not upset about making an average income. |
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this has been interesting for me. it seems many of the biggest leftists fall into two categories: (1) those so out of touch that they truly don't know anything about poverty or even blue collar workers other than what they read from their ivory tower; and (2) those relying the most on the government handouts who want to keep the gravy train coming.
I'm like a lot of the "50s". I have first cousins who are "poor by choice". That is, I know the decisions they made (multiple kids by multiple men, crime, etc.) and have much less pity for them as a result. I have many rental properties where the tenants spend all of their money on amazing luxury goods (new pick-ups, incredible tv systems, stupid crap like outdoor furniture and trampolines and above ground pools) and then have no money for rent. So maybe I was in a bubble, because I thought the "limo liberal" thing was just a joke ... but now it seems real to me. |
I'm the poster who was originally quoted. I don't want to go too far off topic, but I don't find that to be true at all. I think its a misconception. For example, educated upper middle class blacks still tend to pledge Black Greeks, even when there isn't a strong presence on campus in comparison to white frats. Sanaa Lathan and crew in "Something New" is a pretty accurate example of what I mean. Virtually every black upper middle class person will know who she is...will every upper middle class caucasion? probably not. Also, the article begins with something like White upper class people are losing their minds. That's who this survey had in mind (nothing wrong with it). |
Why do these things amaze you? I dislike proselytizing religious people so I avoid evangelicals. I have many profoundly religious friends of many diverse religious backgrounds, but I find evangelicals to be difficult people to be around since I find them to be religiously intolerant. As for factory jobs, again, I'm surprised your amazed. The majority of people that come onto DCUM are people who grew up and predominantly lived in suburban and urban areas and ended up with largely white collar jobs. Relatively few have even lived near factories, let alone worked in them. My jobs in college were fast food, then basic office jobs starting with unskilled jobs and then going into skilled jobs that related to my education. And my college friends were pretty similar, working various unskilled jobs in business, retail and office settings that had nothing to do with factories. While there may be a large demographic that has worked in factories as you suspect, relatively few of those types fit the background of the typical DCUM reader. |
i'm black and from dc. do you know of any evangelicals in the district? a factory? |
| 9 here. I'm the child of well-educated immigrants who went to Yale and Harvard and grew up in SF so not too surprising But I somehow know who both Jimmy/ Jimmie Johnson are. |
1. At every job I've had and every neighborhood there have been numerous G od-squaders. I cannot avoid them. 2. I am from suburban md but spent two summers making windows in elkridge. My nephew recently did something similar. Seemed common enough. |
Another one saying you are not the only one with shameful family secrets. We are unquestionably 1%ers, and I make at least 60% of our HHI. I scored a 36 - upper middle class with middle class parents. I have a sister who has kids with multiple men and lives off of the child support for one kid, the SSI checks for another kid, grant money she has received to buy equipment for her kid with the disability (that she then spends on herself and never gets the equipment), and help from my parents, along with whatever other assistance (state medical, food stamps, etc.) she can get. She never even finished college and also never could hold a job for more than a year as another PP referred to. The odd thing is that she is the only one in my immediate family, or frankly even extended family, like that. Not everyone in the extended family is as economically well off as my parents (solidly middle class and comfortable in retirement unless spending on my sister's kids causes them to run out of money, which they fear). Yet none of them act like my sister. I keep trying to think not everyone who needs assistance is like her, and I donate to all sorts of things. But it does sometimes make me wonder how many else there are like her. Her poverty is absolutely self-inflicted. She had all the same opportunities I did, but blew them. The fact that I got a 36 instead of something lower has nothing to do with my sister - it's a combination of having lived in small places, bought Budweiser at the beach and that emergency road stop at Outback. I didn't work at a factory - I worked at fast food places, but that was while in school so that uniform didn't count, and I don't remember it causing anything to hurt. I haven't had anything but a desk job since the summer after my junior year in college. And I don't watch much TV (except for my maternity leave ventures into Dr, Phil, Oprah and Judge Judy) or see many movies. I didn't know who Jimmie Johnson was, but I have bought Avon. I know there are many different ways of living, and I like having lived in different places from urban to rural. I do find it hard to know what to do, however, about people like my sister. I don't see any fair way of being able to systematically figure out those who have self-inflicted poverty and those who don't, though, so if living in the bubble helps me think the number of self-inflicted people is small, I am glad for my bubble. |