Parents - your kids are bringing garbage snacks to school

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Some of you are being weirdly defensive about crackers when we are talking about Doritos and cookies. Not everything is about you.

Also, just spitballing here but fruits/veggies that could easily make it 3-4 hours without an ice pack:

Apples
Bananas
Clementines
Grapes
Pears
Carrots
Peppers
Cucumbers
Grape tomatoes

My kids don't actually get "snack time" at school but just remarking...I'm a perimenopausal woman who has to be much more concerned about managing weight than a kid, and if I am actually legit hungry and eat an apple or cucumbers for a snack, I'm...still hungry. I don't think that's enough for kids who are really hungry (although it's fine if they just want something to munch on). Sure, the ideal might be fruit or veg + protein, but it is so hard to get my kindergartener to eat ANY protein at all that I don't insist on it for after school snack. He will typically have a little fruit and some cheez its or even a small bowl of cereal if dinner will be late due to evening activities.

Anyway, my point is that it is also OK for kids to eat grains when they are hungry.

Again, we are talking about cookies and Doritos and mini muffins. Not fruit and cheeze its. So calm down.

[Anonymous]

i just can't take seriously anyone looking up the amount of sugar in applesauce and saying its "not ideal".


most of you must have absolutely tiny children and literally nothing else doing on in your lives.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you are not watching out for this you should be.

On a daily basis I have kids bringing for snack (not dessert):

Packaged muffins, cookies, brownies, Doritos, cheetos. And the quantities they are bringing are astounding too.

This is terrible brain food. It makes them sleepy, unfocused and it’s terrible for their health too!

At our school they hand these out for breakfast- well not "cookies" but sweet muffins and pastries. Plus juice or chocolate milk. I agree it's terrible for the reasons you state but this is far from just a problem of poor parenting.

Agreed, I'm FAR from a strict healthy eating parent - my kids eat stuff like cereal, zucchini bread, etc for breakfast - but the school menu is completely ridiculous. Stuff like a sleeve of 6 mini chocolate donuts for breakfast, the "packaged muffins" OP hates so much, cinnamon rolls....

I don’t understand this at all. It’s like parents are using something objectively bad that the school district is doing to say, “See!! The school does it so it must be totally ok for me to do it to!” You can’t be serious. I have several low income students who qualify for free school meals and their parents would never let them eat that junk. They are some of my healthiest students.

Meanwhile Mr. I-missed-school-for-2–different-Disney-Cruises-this-year wouldn’t know a non-processed food if it hit him on the head.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Some of you are being weirdly defensive about crackers when we are talking about Doritos and cookies. Not everything is about you.

Also, just spitballing here but fruits/veggies that could easily make it 3-4 hours without an ice pack:

Apples
Bananas
Clementines
Grapes
Pears
Carrots
Peppers
Cucumbers
Grape tomatoes

Exactly. My kids don’t eat the healthiest by any means. Our “snack cabinet” (food that they can choose occasionally (not daily) for an after school treat right now contains: pop tarts, trail mix packs w m&ms, plain ruffles potato chips, little fruit squeeze pouches that I know have tons of sugar, etc. So I’m not exactly super strict on providing only healthy snacks.

But, no, parents sending this junk for snack every single day all school year are not “doing the best they can.” You can buy a bunch of bananas or a bag of apples cheaper than that costco size pack of Doritos or Oreos. They don’t need to be refrigerated. If your kid won’t eat an apple or a banana and you can’t use ice packs, plain popcorn or pretzels are also very cheap and easy things to send still healthier than Cheetos or chips ahoy. I volunteer at my kids’ school lunch often and it’s honestly really sad and appalling what most kids are eating on a regular basis—both those who bring home lunch and those who get school lunch.

LOL Please explain the health benefits of pretzels.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:i just can't take seriously anyone looking up the amount of sugar in applesauce and saying its "not ideal".


most of you must have absolutely tiny children and literally nothing else doing on in your lives.

She needed proof that applesauce was better than mini muffins and I’m the absurd one? GTFOOH. I’m totally cool with applesauce, I just buy in bulk and use my own containers.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you are not watching out for this you should be.

On a daily basis I have kids bringing for snack (not dessert):

Packaged muffins, cookies, brownies, Doritos, cheetos. And the quantities they are bringing are astounding too.

This is terrible brain food. It makes them sleepy, unfocused and it’s terrible for their health too!

At our school they hand these out for breakfast- well not "cookies" but sweet muffins and pastries. Plus juice or chocolate milk. I agree it's terrible for the reasons you state but this is far from just a problem of poor parenting.

Chocolate milk is one of the top nutritious recommendations for pretty much every serious athlete in the world. But some influencer or random journalist told you it’s uNhEaLtHy so you get your panties in a twist at the thought of a kid drinking it once or twice a day.

It’s very obvious that most of you do not have older kids (or kids you’ve actually managed to raise to adulthood). The sanctimommy is strong in this thread.

This is school, where kids are sitting all day (with percentage of overweight kids climbing every year), not high performance sports. Zero rationale for school to pass out chocolate milk. Regular milk has 13 g of natural sugar.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Please have patience and tolerance. Most people are doing the best they can. Show some empathy.

No. A sleeve of cookies is not the “best you can.” Even if you can’t manage to prepare anything, at least buy skinny pop and gogo squeeze.

LOL at gogo squeeze being a decent choice by any metric. You’re adorable.

I wouldn’t send it either. But it’s better than Oreos or Doritos for parents who are “doing the best they can” whatever that means. I mean, why even have kids if you can’t bother to feed them nutritiously? After “keep them alive” it’s probably your most important parenting task.

Show your work. You sound like a sucker, to be honest.

Here ya go! It wasn’t exactly hard to determine that applesauce beats mini muffins.

Gogo Squeez
No added sugar or artificial ingredients and only 60 calories and 14g of carbs. The 10g of naturally occurring sugar isn’t ideal but at least it’s not artificial.

https://lowfodmapeating.com/are-gogo-squeez-healthy/

One pack of Little Bites muffins is 200 calories (more than 3x), 9g of fat, 14g of (not naturally occurring) sugar and 30g of carbs (2x). They also include preservatives and artificial flavors.

https://lowfodmapeating.com/are-little-bites-healthy/

Counting calories as "bad" makes sense if you're an overweight adult, not if you're a sixty pound ten year old.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you are not watching out for this you should be.

On a daily basis I have kids bringing for snack (not dessert):

Packaged muffins, cookies, brownies, Doritos, cheetos. And the quantities they are bringing are astounding too.

This is terrible brain food. It makes them sleepy, unfocused and it’s terrible for their health too!

At our school they hand these out for breakfast- well not "cookies" but sweet muffins and pastries. Plus juice or chocolate milk. I agree it's terrible for the reasons you state but this is far from just a problem of poor parenting.

This. The school food is terrible. Our school gives free breakfast and lunch to all kids. Doesnt matter if you fed them something heathy at home. If they arrive any school and want the chocolate mini muffins and cinnamon roll, they take it. Parents have zero control on whether their child consumes the school junk. Teachers are always passing out cheap junk snacks and candy as well. Same for lunch. You can pack them heathy lunch, but they can decide they’d rather have them Bocsa cheese stuff breadsticks and grab those instead. Schools provide so much junk food, for free.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you are not watching out for this you should be.

On a daily basis I have kids bringing for snack (not dessert):

Packaged muffins, cookies, brownies, Doritos, cheetos. And the quantities they are bringing are astounding too.

This is terrible brain food. It makes them sleepy, unfocused and it’s terrible for their health too!

At our school they hand these out for breakfast- well not "cookies" but sweet muffins and pastries. Plus juice or chocolate milk. I agree it's terrible for the reasons you state but this is far from just a problem of poor parenting.

This. The school food is terrible. Our school gives free breakfast and lunch to all kids. Doesnt matter if you fed them something heathy at home. If they arrive any school and want the chocolate mini muffins and cinnamon roll, they take it. Parents have zero control on whether their child consumes the school junk. Teachers are always passing out cheap junk snacks and candy as well. Same for lunch. You can pack them heathy lunch, but they can decide they’d rather have them Bocsa cheese stuff breadsticks and grab those instead. Schools provide so much junk food, for free.

You may as well just give up on parenting then!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Please have patience and tolerance. Most people are doing the best they can. Show some empathy.

No. A sleeve of cookies is not the “best you can.” Even if you can’t manage to prepare anything, at least buy skinny pop and gogo squeeze.

LOL at gogo squeeze being a decent choice by any metric. You’re adorable.

I wouldn’t send it either. But it’s better than Oreos or Doritos for parents who are “doing the best they can” whatever that means. I mean, why even have kids if you can’t bother to feed them nutritiously? After “keep them alive” it’s probably your most important parenting task.

Show your work. You sound like a sucker, to be honest.

Here ya go! It wasn’t exactly hard to determine that applesauce beats mini muffins.

Gogo Squeez
No added sugar or artificial ingredients and only 60 calories and 14g of carbs. The 10g of naturally occurring sugar isn’t ideal but at least it’s not artificial.

https://lowfodmapeating.com/are-gogo-squeez-healthy/

One pack of Little Bites muffins is 200 calories (more than 3x), 9g of fat, 14g of (not naturally occurring) sugar and 30g of carbs (2x). They also include preservatives and artificial flavors.

https://lowfodmapeating.com/are-little-bites-healthy/

I see. You’re making the assumption that all kids are diets. I’d prefer my kid eat 200 calories versus 60 for a snack, so point 1 goes to the muffins. I also don’t care about counting macros for my elementary schooler, maybe your kid has some special health needs? Sorry about that.

You also forgot to consider microplastics and plastic waste in your analysis of carb counts for grade schoolers. This was a “C-“ effort on your part.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Some of you are being weirdly defensive about crackers when we are talking about Doritos and cookies. Not everything is about you.

Also, just spitballing here but fruits/veggies that could easily make it 3-4 hours without an ice pack:

Apples
Bananas
Clementines
Grapes
Pears
Carrots
Peppers
Cucumbers
Grape tomatoes

My kids don't actually get "snack time" at school but just remarking...I'm a perimenopausal woman who has to be much more concerned about managing weight than a kid, and if I am actually legit hungry and eat an apple or cucumbers for a snack, I'm...still hungry. I don't think that's enough for kids who are really hungry (although it's fine if they just want something to munch on). Sure, the ideal might be fruit or veg + protein, but it is so hard to get my kindergartener to eat ANY protein at all that I don't insist on it for after school snack. He will typically have a little fruit and some cheez its or even a small bowl of cereal if dinner will be late due to evening activities.

Anyway, my point is that it is also OK for kids to eat grains when they are hungry.

Again, we are talking about cookies and Doritos and mini muffins. Not fruit and cheeze its. So calm down.

Do you think Doritos are worse than Cheeze its? Why?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you are not watching out for this you should be.

On a daily basis I have kids bringing for snack (not dessert):

Packaged muffins, cookies, brownies, Doritos, cheetos. And the quantities they are bringing are astounding too.

This is terrible brain food. It makes them sleepy, unfocused and it’s terrible for their health too!

At our school they hand these out for breakfast- well not "cookies" but sweet muffins and pastries. Plus juice or chocolate milk. I agree it's terrible for the reasons you state but this is far from just a problem of poor parenting.

Agreed, I'm FAR from a strict healthy eating parent - my kids eat stuff like cereal, zucchini bread, etc for breakfast - but the school menu is completely ridiculous. Stuff like a sleeve of 6 mini chocolate donuts for breakfast, the "packaged muffins" OP hates so much, cinnamon rolls....

I don’t understand this at all. It’s like parents are using something objectively bad that the school district is doing to say, “See!! The school does it so it must be totally ok for me to do it to!” You can’t be serious. I have several low income students who qualify for free school meals and their parents would never let them eat that junk. They are some of my healthiest students.

Meanwhile Mr. I-missed-school-for-2–different-Disney-Cruises-this-year wouldn’t know a non-processed food if it hit him on the head.

And yet ANOTHER egregious spelling error from the teacher who claims she doesn’t get good results because the kids eat oreos…

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you are not watching out for this you should be.

On a daily basis I have kids bringing for snack (not dessert):

Packaged muffins, cookies, brownies, Doritos, cheetos. And the quantities they are bringing are astounding too.

This is terrible brain food. It makes them sleepy, unfocused and it’s terrible for their health too!

At our school they hand these out for breakfast- well not "cookies" but sweet muffins and pastries. Plus juice or chocolate milk. I agree it's terrible for the reasons you state but this is far from just a problem of poor parenting.

Chocolate milk is one of the top nutritious recommendations for pretty much every serious athlete in the world. But some influencer or random journalist told you it’s uNhEaLtHy so you get your panties in a twist at the thought of a kid drinking it once or twice a day.

It’s very obvious that most of you do not have older kids (or kids you’ve actually managed to raise to adulthood). The sanctimommy is strong in this thread.

This is school, where kids are sitting all day (with percentage of overweight kids climbing every year), not high performance sports. Zero rationale for school to pass out chocolate milk. Regular milk has 13 g of natural sugar.

If you think chocolate milk is what is causing kids to be overweight I have a bridge to sell you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:i just can't take seriously anyone looking up the amount of sugar in applesauce and saying its "not ideal".


most of you must have absolutely tiny children and literally nothing else doing on in your lives.

She needed proof that applesauce was better than mini muffins and I’m the absurd one? GTFOOH. I’m totally cool with applesauce, I just buy in bulk and use my own containers.

Yes.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you are not watching out for this you should be.

On a daily basis I have kids bringing for snack (not dessert):

Packaged muffins, cookies, brownies, Doritos, cheetos. And the quantities they are bringing are astounding too.

This is terrible brain food. It makes them sleepy, unfocused and it’s terrible for their health too!

At our school they hand these out for breakfast- well not "cookies" but sweet muffins and pastries. Plus juice or chocolate milk. I agree it's terrible for the reasons you state but this is far from just a problem of poor parenting.

Agreed, I'm FAR from a strict healthy eating parent - my kids eat stuff like cereal, zucchini bread, etc for breakfast - but the school menu is completely ridiculous. Stuff like a sleeve of 6 mini chocolate donuts for breakfast, the "packaged muffins" OP hates so much, cinnamon rolls....

I don’t understand this at all. It’s like parents are using something objectively bad that the school district is doing to say, “See!! The school does it so it must be totally ok for me to do it to!” You can’t be serious. I have several low income students who qualify for free school meals and their parents would never let them eat that junk. They are some of my healthiest students.

Meanwhile Mr. I-missed-school-for-2–different-Disney-Cruises-this-year wouldn’t know a non-processed food if it hit him on the head.

I work in a high farms Title I school and the kids are bringing a lot of processed foods. A lot of takis. A lot of candy. I wish they would have healthier options— their mouths are full of cavities (and yes I know because their families can’t afford the white fillings, they have the amalgam fillings that which are obvious) and they have low focus and memory retention.

I agree the school food isn’t great either.