PP here. Last bonus as a senior associate, of course |
| As a 10 year partner, my draw doesn't exceed our quarterly tax payments until July. Today in fact. Woo hoo. |
This isn't true. DH's firm withholds and we make sure they withhold enough that we aren't left with a huge bill in April. |
What's the point of making 1m a year if you can't buy in a good school district? |
His firm withholds his taxes? How cute. |
Your choice of private school puts you in a cash bind because you can't afford private school. So if you choose private school, you need to sacrifice other things. You're right, you cannot build wealth and you cannot compete with others who have grandparents footing the bill. We were similar - first generation, no money, lawyers. We did everything we could to buy in a good school district and sent our kids to public elementary schools. Because we could eventually save and invest money, we're now in a position to be full pay for college and we'll be in a position to pay for our grandchildren's private schools if their parents want. You can't have it both ways -- or you end up in your position. |
I'm surprised to see a firm withholds taxes from income partners. We had to have a long discussion with our accountant (that the firm recommended) when I made partner. Withholding taxes from income partners is not the norm. |
We are talking about equity partners, not income partners. And equity partners by law must pay estimated quarterly taxes. |
Or you could have given your own children the benefit of private schools instead of waiting a generation and never seeing the actual benefits. Or, really, why don’t you just do you instead of the ridiculous judgement. Sheesh. |
Income/nonequity partners too. Never seen otherwise in multiple firms. A partner gets a K-1 and has to pay their own estimates. If not their not a partner. |
But PP is not wrong. If you want to pay for private school when you don't have the money, you sacrifice building wealth and your own retirement. It seems a silly tradeoff when private school doesn't return anywhere near what is lost. And yes, I myself went to private school and had my own kids in private early on until I saw the light and pulled them out. |
| Why would anyone want to be an equity partner? |
I hate responses like this. I'm not in law but no, I could not live comfortably on $280k/year or even double that with my spouse and three kids. Everyone has different levels of income they've structured their lives around. You might think it's outrageous, but too bad. |
b/c if you have a good book of business the year end payments can be substantial ($2M+). Getting and keeping the book is the hard part. |
Money. |