You're saying people think you're gay, but what you're really saying is people think you're unattractive and frumpy and butch-looking. And that bothers you. Maybe try to look and dress more like Daphne (or Fred), and then people will know you are straight. Because all attractive people are straight and all unattractive people are gay. Which is definitely complex. And totally not homophobic. |
So. What. |
What do you mean so what? |
I didn’t invent the stereotype. You think cartoon Velma is a babe? Good for you. |
HOLD THE PHONE “ Scooby-Doo on Zombie Island Fred gained a crush on Lena Dupree which caused Daphne to be jealous, and when Daphne gained a crush on the gardener, Beau Neville, this also caused Fred to be jealous. During the investigation in the Mystery Machine, they were bickering about their crushes.[4]” There were CRUSHES? In a children’s show?? Why do straight people have to make everything about sex? |
I mean exactly that. So what? Here’s Velma’s https://scoobydoo.fandom.com/wiki/Velma_Dinkley I see nothing about her being a secret lesbian. |
In the link about Fred and Daphne there are multiple references to them having crushes on people of the opposite sex. And having secret crushes on each other. It wouldn’t make much sense for them now to be gay. |
This. Pretty much. |
People can’t change? Be bisexual? From what I see from Velma’s bio, she should be ACE. Doesn’t seem like she has any sexual interests at all. No one wanted representation for the ACE community? |
same reason I don't want to be thought of as a criminal or trashy or nerdy etc. I'm not any of those and want to make sure I portray the right image. |
I don't want to expose my kids to something that I don't condone. Most trans kids are attention seekers and certainly don't fall in the minuscule percentage of people who may legitimately have a disconnect between their biology and genitals. Too many kids are using drugs, drinking, cutting, identity changes etc to cope and the more we expose them the more likely they will jump in the bandwagon. The scary part is it isnt easy to go back and quit. I don't want to normalize changing genders because then the child thinks it is a choice, when it shouldn't be. |
| Go back under the bridge, anti-trans bigots. Do you have to ruin every thread? |
| you people are nuts. Imagine getting upset that a FAKE cartoon character is lesbian. |
Honestly you are making the case for representation. There are lots of ways that gay people look, talk, and act - and if your impression is that media shows only one version of it, then that is a representation problem. THere should be more gay rep on screen. Go see the movie Bros! Watch last year’s Home for the Holidays (I think that’s what it’s called) with Kristen Stewart and that awesome actress from Station 11. (Though she was the low point character in the movie, and KS should have gotten together with Aubrey Plaza, but whatever.) |
The case im making is that it feeds tired old stereotypes to have the short-haired, bespectacled, unattractive type be the gay one yet again. And nothing I’ve read here has changed my mind on that. It’s not representation I’m taking issue with (why isn’t she asexual, for one. Fits better with her character and not any representation as far as I know) it’s the feeding into tropes. |