And this is why we can’t have nice things. |
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This discussion has become ridiculous, but an interesting issue is being raised: the impact of masking for younger children who are in before and aftercare and, therefore, required to mask for many hours per day.
All children must attend public school (unless other arrangements are made). Nearly everyone agrees that virtual schooling is not a long-term solution for most kids and works very poorly for many. Given that COVID is here to stay and we are currently in a surge, it is fair to say "no masks" in school at all during periods of significant community spread simply because some kids attend before and aftercare. I wish more people were reasonable and not screaming about being done with masks. Masks should be worn by those with symptoms, those returning after being positive, and those who have been exposed (although I could live without that). If people embrace only the "no masks required" part of the CDC guidance but completely ignore the advice about staying home when sick, testing, and masking with a high-quality mask when you have symptoms or when returning or if a close contact, some cases could be prevented. Sure, one-way masking offers personal protection, but it is less effective when so there are so many cases and when people feel entitled to send maskless kids to school or to ignore testing and isolation advice. You can't wear an N-95 for an entire day without eating or drinking some water. |
Rid of covid? Do you really believe that? For someone who spends so much time obsessing over covid, you seem to have very little understanding of transmission and infection. |
I suspect many of us who are reasonable are worn out by so-called “reasonable” demands. If kids had the option for in-person starting in September 2020, or been able to return without masks in September 2021, I think you’d see more flexibility now. But the policies have been so restrictive, for so long that even many reasonable people are just… done. That’s the problem with focusing solely on the trees and missing the forest. Most people won’t indefinitely comply with restrictions *especially* when the most dire predictions haven’t been borne out. When you cry wolf repeatedly that schools are death traps, and it turns out they aren’t anything close, and you STILL insist they are, well, you get where we are now. When my DH tested positive at home, we immediately rapid tested the kids (all vaccinated, all in elementary). They were negative, so we sent them in wearing KN95s. That’s reasonable. Not reasonable: insisting they should quarantine at home for 10 days, even though they don’t have COVID. Similarly, it’s not reasonable to expect kids who have zero COVID symptoms, especially when vaccinated, to wear masks for… how long, exactly? Until some segment of the population is “comfortable”? Enough. |
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For young kids especially, I don’t think it’s appropriate for them to mask 5 days per week for an indefinite period of time, regardless if there is an extra 1-2 hours of before/aftercare. Same goes for toddlers/preschool aged kids attending daycare. What seemed a reasonable course of action for a few months early in the pandemic gets more unreasonable the longer this goes on. Because even though you guys retort “no one is saying forever” your end date is always based on something like “when we know more about long Covid”, etc. I don’t think anyone is arguing that you shouldn’t keep your kids home when sick or not have them mask if they’ve been exposed or are returning from a Covid infection. Those are perfectly good reasons to wear a mask for a few days. What we are against are these blanket mandates- the minimal benefit derived is not worth it. |
What do you do for a living? |
PP I am really glad to hear you stuck with virtual because it sounds like a great option for you! What field do you work in? I’m thinking about a switch to a flexible WAH job so I can homeschool too. MCPS has been terrible. Do you have any advice for multitasking? That’s what I struggled with last year. Was thinking about asking my PCP for an ADHD evaluation to see if some meds might be appropriate. |
Not the PP but most parents I know who thought virtual was A-OK are feds. It would fit. |
Okay, I could certainly see that. |
I already asked PP how a doctor and scientist could stay at home. So far no answer. But I have a sneaking suspicion if she does come back, it will be something along the lines of “get a new job” or “use up all your leave” or some other delightful piece of wisdom on how easy it is to make work from home doable. Maybe we can contact NIH and have them install a BSL 3 lab in our basement? |
LOL - I’m a Fed, as are many of my neighbors (mostly NIH and FDA). NONE of us thought virtual was okay. None. |
Virtual was equal opportunity terrible for all. Some SAHMs loved the helicopter opportunity it provided, though. |
She probably “works” as an MLM consultant or something of that nature. |
Oh absolutely not. She has a demanding job, makes 7 figures, volunteers 20 hours a week, home cooks every meal from scratch, cleaning the baseboards is in her weekly cleaning rotation, sits on several boards, takes care of her and her husbands aging parents…you know. She’s freakin’ amazeballs! And the only person on all of DCUM that actually loves her kids. |