DP. We are lower lower middle class by DCUM standards and ds did cross country and track at an SLAC. He was on significant financial aid. The students on the team ate all meals together (so you’d be the loner if you went off the meal plan when you are allowed to) and there were practices six days per week with unpredictable schedules, making it difficult to work during the school year. D3 sports are for rich kids in general. |
Fair enough. In my area, kids at all income levels (this is just not a UC/UMC town to begin with) earn college scholarships in those sports. Here (anywhere?), you would not see that happen with squash. I guess that's the kind of thing the inner city program mentioned by PPs is hoping to address. |
We had it at SMU, but it was a club team. I know someone who played on their college's croquet team. |
The Atlantic retracted that article after it came out that the author made stuff up for the story. https://www.nytimes.com/2020/11/01/business/media/atlantic-ruth-shalit-barrett.html |
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Baseball a rich kid sport? Get serious. Travel doesn’t mean rich. My kids played travel and many of the families were semi-rural, working class, and drove beater trucks. If they were rich they were being awfully sneaky about it. |
It means that or serious debt. |
did you kids play at a level where kids were drafted? Just like any other travel sport, there is travel, and then there is the type of travel that involves personal trainers and flights to tournaments |
Throw that article away! As PP noted, the Atlantic retracted it. It was full of fiction. The author has a history of making up facts. |
Both of our kids played a travel sport. DS played in a league where a number of the players' parents were working class. In fact, just a few of us owned cars. We traded our sedan in for a SUV in order to take more players on his team to games. A number of these kids had a shot at D1 scholarships. Perhaps not to the most academically rigorous schools, but still places they would've not have been able to swing unless on a scholarship. DD played on a higher end team. There were less than a handful of players on financial aid. Most of the players on the team wanted to play in college - a few of the players on financial aid got D1 scholarships. Again, schools not the most academically rigorous, but certainly was a huge help to their families. That said, we met TONS of people at tournaments who were putting it all into their kid getting a college scholarship and I sometimes wondered if it would work in the end. One dad clearly thought we were nuts as DD was not working to be recruited. I think a lot of tournament travel goes on credit cards and stays there for months till paid off. |
Lots of urban metro privates have squash teams though not many have squash courts. There is a team @ our kids' school. Kid in our older DC's grade plays squash all to boost his stats for college admissions. I don't think he really likes it that much, but his mom knows it might be an asset at more selective schools. FWIW, a number of top schools have dropped these kinds of sports in recent years. |
You get club team means its a club, right? |
DP. Club teams usually charge dues while varsity sports do not, so it’s even more inequitable. |
| That’s silly. It is not inequitable to spend one’s own money how one chooses. That is very different from having scholarships for so called elite sports. Apples and oranges. |
This...(and have seen it play out in real life) |