| Get it over it. If you're this insecure about something as silly as this he's got a long road ahead of him with you. |
| My ex wife is Kuntress |
| OP, people are being harsh because that's dcum, but I think your feelings are relatable. You already gave all the appropriate caveats about knowing it's silly and that you're not gonna say anything -- which I agree with -- but I totally get what you're saying. It's familial -- and yes they WERE family, but they are not now, so it feels too intimate. |
| Well you are the second wife. He can't erase years of familiarity with his first wife. Thats just something you'll have to get comfortable with. |
| My ex-husband used to call me Babe for years after we split up, even after he got remarried. I seriously think it was just a reflex. I thought it was hilarious! |
| It would annoy me too. |
| Be grateful he is so kind and positive with his ex - it speaks highly of his character. I'd worry a lot more if he called her 'crazy'. |
| It is hard to start calling somebody a different name. And it would be weird, too. Definitely overthinking the situation. |