Silence after good date

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have always received a message a couple of hours after the date.

If the date was that great for the other person, most likely he/she will send you a message like, "It was nice finally meeting you. I had a great time. Looking forward to seeing you again" Bla Bla Bla

Op, maybe it was a great date for you, but not for the other person. Some people are just charismatic, friendly, even if they are not interested. I have been on dates where I like the other person, and I have had a good time but not enough to pursue a relationship.

I agree. If I heard nothing within 24 hours from what I considered a good date it’d be weird. Reach out first OP! Then you know what you’re working with. I’d just text HIM “hey, I had a great time the other night- shall we have an encore sometime?”

Do not do this. Groveling

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:leave it. make no assumptions, carry on with your life.

+1

Silence after a day or two and you can write it off, even during COVID.

[Anonymous]

No harm in texting. Maybe he accidentally deleted your number. Just text hi or hey that's ot.

[Anonymous]

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[Anonymous]

So what’s up OP did you hear from him or not?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Did you put out? if not, he isn't calling, if you did, he isn't calling unless his stable runs low.

Not all men are like this.

Only the men who can.

This is just silly. If this were true, hardly anyone would get married.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No harm in texting. Maybe he accidentally deleted your number. Just text hi or hey that's ot.

Yeah, maybe.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have always received a message a couple of hours after the date.

If the date was that great for the other person, most likely he/she will send you a message like, "It was nice finally meeting you. I had a great time. Looking forward to seeing you again" Bla Bla Bla

Op, maybe it was a great date for you, but not for the other person. Some people are just charismatic, friendly, even if they are not interested. I have been on dates where I like the other person, and I have had a good time but not enough to pursue a relationship.

I agree. If I heard nothing within 24 hours from what I considered a good date it’d be weird. Reach out first OP! Then you know what you’re working with. I’d just text HIM “hey, I had a great time the other night- shall we have an encore sometime?”

There’s a narrow window of opportunity where she could text, ‘Thank you for dinner! I had a great time.’ But not 2 days later

[Anonymous]

I'm juggling about a dozen women right now. If I see even a hint of a red flag in one, she doesn't hear from me again.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm juggling about a dozen women right now. If I see even a hint of a red flag in one, she doesn't hear from me again.

Wow. Do you think you are cool? Because you come across as an obnoxious loser.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So what’s up OP did you hear from him or not?

I texted him after 4 days. He said he thought I wasn’t interested after our second date because My body language suggested I wasn’t into him. I told him I thought he wasn’t interested because I hadn’t heard from him. We both agreed we were happy the misunderstanding was cleared up, because we both had a good time. We have another date set for tomorrow.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So what’s up OP did you hear from him or not?

I texted him after 4 days. He said he thought I wasn’t interested after our second date because My body language suggested I wasn’t into him. I told him I thought he wasn’t interested because I hadn’t heard from him. We both agreed we were happy the misunderstanding was cleared up, because we both had a good time. We have another date set for tomorrow.

Congrats! Report back.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So what’s up OP did you hear from him or not?

I texted him after 4 days. He said he thought I wasn’t interested after our second date because My body language suggested I wasn’t into him. I told him I thought he wasn’t interested because I hadn’t heard from him. We both agreed we were happy the misunderstanding was cleared up, because we both had a good time. We have another date set for tomorrow.

Aww. That just made my day. Hope you enjoy your date.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So what’s up OP did you hear from him or not?

I texted him after 4 days. He said he thought I wasn’t interested after our second date because My body language suggested I wasn’t into him. I told him I thought he wasn’t interested because I hadn’t heard from him. We both agreed we were happy the misunderstanding was cleared up, because we both had a good time. We have another date set for tomorrow.

Good for you. See why these silly rules are silly? Just be real.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So what’s up OP did you hear from him or not?

I texted him after 4 days. He said he thought I wasn’t interested after our second date because My body language suggested I wasn’t into him. I told him I thought he wasn’t interested because I hadn’t heard from him. We both agreed we were happy the misunderstanding was cleared up, because we both had a good time. We have another date set for tomorrow.

I love this follow-up! Report back regardless of how it goes. I’m fully invested in this story now. 😬