Are men with more partners more understanding?

[Anonymous]

DH and I were each other's one and only. We met in college and have been together for 33 years. We were virgins on our wedding night. He does not have any sisters. He is the most loving, decent and understanding person I have met in my whole life. Sexually, he is the most giving and adventurous partner I could have. I find that our connection is stronger because we do not have the baggage of previously bad relationships to color our thoughts.


Having more partners just means that the person has had more failed relationships. It is like when the Trumpers thought Trump was a good businessman because he had all these failed businesses and bankruptcies. It just means that these people are losers and fakers.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:DH and I were each other's one and only. We met in college and have been together for 33 years. We were virgins on our wedding night. He does not have any sisters. He is the most loving, decent and understanding person I have met in my whole life. Sexually, he is the most giving and adventurous partner I could have. I find that our connection is stronger because we do not have the baggage of previously bad relationships to color our thoughts.


Having more partners just means that the person has had more failed relationships. It is like when the Trumpers thought Trump was a good businessman because he had all these failed businesses and bankruptcies. It just means that these people are losers and fakers.

You literally have no way of knowing this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH and I were each other's one and only. We met in college and have been together for 33 years. We were virgins on our wedding night. He does not have any sisters. He is the most loving, decent and understanding person I have met in my whole life. Sexually, he is the most giving and adventurous partner I could have. I find that our connection is stronger because we do not have the baggage of previously bad relationships to color our thoughts.


Having more partners just means that the person has had more failed relationships. It is like when the Trumpers thought Trump was a good businessman because he had all these failed businesses and bankruptcies. It just means that these people are losers and fakers.

You literally have no way of knowing this.

Just my orgasms. And my looking forward to having sex 3 times a week with him because we explore our fantasies together and we know each other so well. Sex done well will make you want more of it because it is so darn pleasurable. Obviously, most people on DCUM don't get good sex else they won't be bitching about here.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH and I were each other's one and only. We met in college and have been together for 33 years. We were virgins on our wedding night. He does not have any sisters. He is the most loving, decent and understanding person I have met in my whole life. Sexually, he is the most giving and adventurous partner I could have. I find that our connection is stronger because we do not have the baggage of previously bad relationships to color our thoughts.


Having more partners just means that the person has had more failed relationships. It is like when the Trumpers thought Trump was a good businessman because he had all these failed businesses and bankruptcies. It just means that these people are losers and fakers.

You literally have no way of knowing this.

Good sex is not rocket science. It is pleasurable, orgasmic and intense when it is done right.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My DH has extremely little experience with women. I’m his second and we’re almost 60. Me on the other hand have had many relationships with men. I feel since my DH doesn’t have lots of experience it makes him ignorant to how women act. He’s quick to say that I’m a drama queen. I tell him any woman would react the same way if she had a heartbeat. Do men with more experience more understanding of women?

My husband is cool with my moods. But I do wish he had had more sex partners. He's not great in bed and no amount of teaching seems to help...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My DH has extremely little experience with women. I’m his second and we’re almost 60. Me on the other hand have had many relationships with men. I feel since my DH doesn’t have lots of experience it makes him ignorant to how women act. He’s quick to say that I’m a drama queen. I tell him any woman would react the same way if she had a heartbeat. Do men with more experience more understanding of women?

My husband is cool with my moods. But I do wish he had had more sex partners. He's not great in bed and no amount of teaching seems to help...

I don't think more partners would help if the he won't take instruction from the woman he loves the most.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:DH and I were each other's one and only. We met in college and have been together for 33 years. We were virgins on our wedding night. He does not have any sisters. He is the most loving, decent and understanding person I have met in my whole life. Sexually, he is the most giving and adventurous partner I could have. I find that our connection is stronger because we do not have the baggage of previously bad relationships to color our thoughts.


Having more partners just means that the person has had more failed relationships. It is like when the Trumpers thought Trump was a good businessman because he had all these failed businesses and bankruptcies. It just means that these people are losers and fakers.

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If you're as happy as you claim you wouldn't insult people who have had more partners.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH and I were each other's one and only. We met in college and have been together for 33 years. We were virgins on our wedding night. He does not have any sisters. He is the most loving, decent and understanding person I have met in my whole life. Sexually, he is the most giving and adventurous partner I could have. I find that our connection is stronger because we do not have the baggage of previously bad relationships to color our thoughts.


Having more partners just means that the person has had more failed relationships. It is like when the Trumpers thought Trump was a good businessman because he had all these failed businesses and bankruptcies. It just means that these people are losers and fakers.

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If you're as happy as you claim you wouldn't insult people who have had more partners.

+1 way to sanctimonious to be secure

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH and I were each other's one and only. We met in college and have been together for 33 years. We were virgins on our wedding night. He does not have any sisters. He is the most loving, decent and understanding person I have met in my whole life. Sexually, he is the most giving and adventurous partner I could have. I find that our connection is stronger because we do not have the baggage of previously bad relationships to color our thoughts.


Having more partners just means that the person has had more failed relationships. It is like when the Trumpers thought Trump was a good businessman because he had all these failed businesses and bankruptcies. It just means that these people are losers and fakers.

You literally have no way of knowing this.

Just my orgasms. And my looking forward to having sex 3 times a week with him because we explore our fantasies together and we know each other so well. Sex done well will make you want more of it because it is so darn pleasurable. Obviously, most people on DCUM don't get good sex else they won't be bitching about here.

I'm not denying that you enjoy it, just that you have literally no comparison or frame of reference. It's not an insult, just a fact.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH and I were each other's one and only. We met in college and have been together for 33 years. We were virgins on our wedding night. He does not have any sisters. He is the most loving, decent and understanding person I have met in my whole life. Sexually, he is the most giving and adventurous partner I could have. I find that our connection is stronger because we do not have the baggage of previously bad relationships to color our thoughts.


Having more partners just means that the person has had more failed relationships. It is like when the Trumpers thought Trump was a good businessman because he had all these failed businesses and bankruptcies. It just means that these people are losers and fakers.

''

If you're as happy as you claim you wouldn't insult people who have had more partners.

+1 way to sanctimonious to be secure

No here. That's rich! The only ones sounding insecure are the 2 of you and the pp who insists she can't know if she's having good sex or not.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH and I were each other's one and only. We met in college and have been together for 33 years. We were virgins on our wedding night. He does not have any sisters. He is the most loving, decent and understanding person I have met in my whole life. Sexually, he is the most giving and adventurous partner I could have. I find that our connection is stronger because we do not have the baggage of previously bad relationships to color our thoughts.


Having more partners just means that the person has had more failed relationships. It is like when the Trumpers thought Trump was a good businessman because he had all these failed businesses and bankruptcies. It just means that these people are losers and fakers.

''

If you're as happy as you claim you wouldn't insult people who have had more partners.

+1 way to sanctimonious to be secure

No here. That's rich! The only ones sounding insecure are the 2 of you and the pp who insists she can't know if she's having good sex or not.

I don't call people losers or fakers based on the number of partners they've had, and I think it's an awful/nasty thing to say. If that makes me sound insecure I guess that's fine.

[Anonymous]

How many people you are with has nothing to do with your maturity. Your maturity is measured by your ability to evolve. The number of people you date don't have anything to do with it. The catalyst for change/inner growth and being more understanding can vary person to person.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Haha!!! Men with more experience simply have learned how to fake it! That’s WHY they got more experience. Lol!

So true.

Yup... Lie till ya die! Just tell them what they want to hear so they shut their trap.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH and I were each other's one and only. We met in college and have been together for 33 years. We were virgins on our wedding night. He does not have any sisters. He is the most loving, decent and understanding person I have met in my whole life. Sexually, he is the most giving and adventurous partner I could have. I find that our connection is stronger because we do not have the baggage of previously bad relationships to color our thoughts.


Having more partners just means that the person has had more failed relationships. It is like when the Trumpers thought Trump was a good businessman because he had all these failed businesses and bankruptcies. It just means that these people are losers and fakers.

''

If you're as happy as you claim you wouldn't insult people who have had more partners.

+1 way to sanctimonious to be secure

No here. That's rich! The only ones sounding insecure are the 2 of you and the pp who insists she can't know if she's having good sex or not.

I don't call people losers or fakers based on the number of partners they've had, and I think it's an awful/nasty thing to say. If that makes me sound insecure I guess that's fine.

That's not what pp said, but that's how you decided to interpret it because you're insecure.