He should tell her if she gets fat and it grosses him out, he has the right not to kiss her or have sex with her. |
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Is it the beard you don't like or the poor hygiene?
I think a beard cn be very sexy on a man, but he has to take care of it, and there's no excuse to have food in it. |
+1 when I say to my husband “why don’t you shave tonight” he disappears into the bathroom within minutes. |
Shaving is something that is entirely within someone’s control And takes about 10 minutes to solve. While I agree that excessive weight gain can be problematic in a relationship due to attraction levels waning, I don’t think that is an appropriate comparison. Weight gain can be for many reasons and it takes much longer than 10 minutes to solve that issue. |
Both. He looks like Saul Berenson on Homeland and if the food wasn’t enough, he also has allergies so there is always mucous caked in his mustache. |
| Just tell him you hate it and it’s gross! You can do it nicely but be honest. |
Yeah, but guys will fock anyone who will have them. I doubt ops dh would decline sex. Women have the luxury of being selective. |
I just puked a little. I'm off to look up this Saul Berenson...... |
Oh! It's Mandy Patinkin! He's a sweetheart! |
| Do you like your dh or no? |
| I’m really happy some of my co-workers have grown covid beards. I get hot and bothered during zoom calls, men just seem more manly. Idk seems like I’m one of the few that likes them. |
Ok for me a Saul Berenson beard isn't so bad, but the hygiene thing is just gross, and to be quite honest I wouldn't trust his hygiene after this even if he agreed to shave. I think I would just focus on the hygiene, ie turn away from a kiss if there's food or mucous, and tell him you can't kiss him right now because of it. |
| My husband knows that if he wants sex his face needs to be like a baby’s bottom. It’s the price of entry so to speak! |
Agree - I hate cheek and thigh burns. I’m sure some women love it but not me. |