WWYD if your spouse did this?

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Anonymous wrote:Make him go to AA. If he doesn't stop drinking, leave him. The humiliation will be huge when the shit hits the fan, since he is in public office and will be torn apart in public.

Well, kind of already was. He was stripped of all his committees and got primaried and lost by 58 points

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Anonymous wrote:Make him apologize by buying me something very expensive. He'd be unlikely to do it again. Make sure it's at a price point that it will be a stretch for him.


Then, wear it all the time.

HAHAHAHAHA. I know someone who has a closet FULL of Louboutins, high end bags, and glitzy high end enormous diamonds by this method. Now, whenever I see any of those, all I can think is that their DH is a dog.

She's clearly not making it expensive enough. If your husband earns 100k a year, you want a 20-30k item. If your husband earns 1 million a year, you want a 500k item.

Even if you divorce, you'll have something to sell.

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Anonymous wrote:Who’s “you”?

Are you the staffer, or the lawmakers wife?

You as in people responding. No, I’m neither. I’m just curious.

Of course you are.

Nah. This all happened like a year ago. My memory just got refreshed because he lost in his primary last night and this issue was a focal point of the campaign.

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People make mistakes. I wouldn’t overreact if it was a one time thing.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My DH did something similar but the staffer went back to his hotel room. He said they were both so drunk they just passed out but even so, I think it’s not ok.

Even if nothing happened, it’s inappropriate for them to be in a hotel room together. SMH.

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So, who is this? Obviously a public figure if he lost in a primary

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My DH did something similar but the staffer went back to his hotel room. He said they were both so drunk they just passed out but even so, I think it’s not ok.

Hopefully you didn’t believe that lie.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Who’s “you”?

Are you the staffer, or the lawmakers wife?

You as in people responding. No, I’m neither. I’m just curious.

Of course you are.

Nah. This all happened like a year ago. My memory just got refreshed because he lost in his primary last night and this issue was a focal point of the campaign.

He harassed a woman and then ran for public office? I'd divorce him just for being dumb enough to think he'd win.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So, who is this? Obviously a public figure if he lost in a primary

State government rep

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Who's Staush Gruszynski for 500, Alex

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I'd leave him simply because he looks like Jared Fogle of Subway/pedophilia infamy.

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I would leave. I would probably leave for consensual cheating, but I have NO tolerance for any kind of predatory behavior. I have an acquaintance whose husband had multiple affairs, but also two instances which sounded like potentially assault, for which he was fired. Even if I could get over him being a horndog (doubtful!), I couldn't be married to someone who had multiple colleagues lodging complaints because he was aggressive and made women feel unsafe. Absolutely not.

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Anonymous wrote:Who's Staush Gruszynski for 500, Alex

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The fact that he ran for office again despite virtually every leader in his own party telling him not to tells me that he’s just DUMB. In addition to being a predator

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Anonymous wrote:Make him apologize by buying me something very expensive. He'd be unlikely to do it again. Make sure it's at a price point that it will be a stretch for him.


Then, wear it all the time.

The idea is that he'll hesitate in the future because he won't want to have to splash out again.

Sometimes men love their wives, but think with their penis. This is a good way to give him some motivation to stay away.

The trick is not to hold onto resentment. And make sure the thing you pick out is at a price point that you can think to yourself, he wouldn't be able to spend this money on anyone else.

Take Vanessa Bryant’s route. Interesting take.