I can’t get the recent tragedies out of my mind

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:The murders of black men have always happened. We just didn’t have video before.

Gun accidents are a fact of life. You immediately increase your risk of dying from a gunshot when you buy a gun.

I’m sorry you’re just starting to realize this stuff.


Is everything only black and white for you? The point is all the bad happening in the world. Its been happening for centuries and most of us are shielded from it as it doesn't happen near us but social media lets us all be connected. Media is the difference. These things happen with all races, genders, nationalities and in all countries.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Me too. I was thinking this week of actually finding a counselor/therapist or something because my emotions are becoming disruptive to my life



Me, too.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Compounding the problems that are eating away at us is that we have a president who loves to pour fuel on the fire regardless of the issue. The ship is rudderless and we are heading towards the rocks.


I blame him for these tragedies. He has blood on his hands.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:We are all breaking down from this SAH and the fear.


No. I am fine with the SAH. I am not fine with people who are trying to protect us coldly killing us instead. I am not afraid. I am angry and devastated.
Anonymous
This will seem unkind, but the fact that you seem to think that exercising and "eating incredibly well" should somehow insulate you from feeling emotions about the horrible things happening points to an under-developed character. The world can be a dark, sad place. You eating organic with your husband and beautiful child doesn't change that.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Same OP. My husband is a strong silent type, but he nervously showed me a poem last night that he'd written about what he's been feeling. We wept in each other's arms. I almost wish I'd never watched the video. Watching someone be slowly tortured to death has really shaken me.


I am ripped apart by what happened to George Floyd. When he called out for his mom as he was being murdered .... I can’t get it out of my mind.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:The murders of black men have always happened. We just didn’t have video before.

Gun accidents are a fact of life. You immediately increase your risk of dying from a gunshot when you buy a gun.

I’m sorry you’re just starting to realize this stuff.


This is a really rude post and not appropriate as a response to someone that's bearing their soul in frustration and fear.
Anonymous
The news today is so mixed. There are stories that will rip your soul and stories that will restore your belief in mankind. You sound like such a wonderful, sensitive person. God bless you.

For me personally, it breaks my heart that this man got himself into such a situation. It was tragic that he apparently had taken the wrong path i.e. drugs and counterfeit money. These are crimes which should not be punishable by death much less without a trial. He may have been very resistant to being restrained, which made for tough calls by the arresting officers.

I also weep for the young people who are being used by an unknown party to commit acts of terrisom. The very fact that they are being used to throw the bricks placed around town probably for that purpose is soooo sad. I weep for the victims of their rage and improper behavior. This is not grief. It is more like a temper tantrum and they should have rec’d proper parenting on this behavior years ago. The very fact that they are unable or unwilling to make good choices is a heart breaking matter.

But I rejoice at the pictures I see of people hugging no matter the color of skin, people praying, and ministries that are offering an ear to hear and hope for tomorrow. As for me I don’t need to watch videos that will haunt my memory. I just need to know some simple facts, so that I can do what I feel led to do. Right now that is just to pray. God hears and answers our prayers and there is so much to pray for in the world today.

There has been a struggle between good and evil since the time of creation and Adam and Eve. The struggle is real and the struggle will affect us. We have a choice and each one has to make a personal choice. There is hope and there is a better way. Jesus came to earth and offered Himself to take care of man’s sin problem. Again it is a choice of whether or not to accept this.

As far as Mr. Floyd calling out for his Mother. He may have seen her and was actually speaking to her. My mother did that on her deathbed. She called out greeting to her son, who she loved and had gone on before her and was conforted.

This is a sad event. There are many sad events happening today and the media makes sure we know about them. They write the narrative whether it is true or not. But there are other sources that are showing good and hopeful things that are happening. If you are able to see these they will encourage and bless you.

For me, the Bible, the Word of God, brings comfort. In it I see times which have been just as bad as they are right now but I am able to see how God works thru those times and brings hope. It blesses me. I hope that you can find a place of blessing in all of this. You might call this number- 855 382 5433-and ask for encouragement. They have excellent resources for encouraging people in times like these. I am praying for you. God bless you and your family.

Anonymous
This makes me happy about my “under a rock” status. I don’t even know what happened to George Floyd other than that he was unfairly and brutally killed by a cop. That’s all I need to know. I don’t need to watch a horrific video.

I am doing the best I can in my day-to-day life by being a good person and not being a racist. Have no desire to start hand-wringing and being depressed and hopeless because that’s not going to benefit anyone but will actively hurt me and my loved ones.
Anonymous
I’m a wreck for the same reasons, OP. I can’t stop thinking about him calling for his mother - that deep and primal urge for a mother’s love - it chokes me up again and again. His bond with his mother was so strong that he called out for her even though she had died two years earlier.

Seeing his beautiful children yesterday had me sobbing. His ex, with whom he co-parented his daughter, was so eloquent in her grief.

There is just so much pain and I feel like I’m not doing enough to help change things.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:This makes me happy about my “under a rock” status. I don’t even know what happened to George Floyd other than that he was unfairly and brutally killed by a cop. That’s all I need to know. I don’t need to watch a horrific video.

I am doing the best I can in my day-to-day life by being a good person and not being a racist. Have no desire to start hand-wringing and being depressed and hopeless because that’s not going to benefit anyone but will actively hurt me and my loved ones.



Wow. White privilege!

And not everyone is even capable living under a rock.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I’m a wreck for the same reasons, OP. I can’t stop thinking about him calling for his mother - that deep and primal urge for a mother’s love - it chokes me up again and again. His bond with his mother was so strong that he called out for her even though she had died two years earlier.

Seeing his beautiful children yesterday had me sobbing. His ex, with whom he co-parented his daughter, was so eloquent in her grief.

There is just so much pain and I feel like I’m not doing enough to help change things.



+1. I feel the same. I joined BLM for starters and am being honest with my kids about what’s happening.

And voting a straight Democratic ticket, obviously.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:This makes me happy about my “under a rock” status. I don’t even know what happened to George Floyd other than that he was unfairly and brutally killed by a cop. That’s all I need to know. I don’t need to watch a horrific video.

I am doing the best I can in my day-to-day life by being a good person and not being a racist. Have no desire to start hand-wringing and being depressed and hopeless because that’s not going to benefit anyone but will actively hurt me and my loved ones.


+1
Anonymous
Anyone else haunted by the image of David Dorn laying dying on the ground for 13 minutes while looters go in and out? Its horrifying to even read about so why all this more senseless killing
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:That poor man called out for his mother while he was being killed?!

Now I’m crying.


I know.. I am crying every time I think about him, every time I see the image on the news. I can not imagine what he has been through those short minutes that must have last the lifetime. I can not wrap my head around this.

Rest in peace George Floyd.
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