Different “discipline” methods...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's very common where I live. We see parents hit their kids on playdates all the time. It's so sad.

A friend of mine keeps inviting me to church and brags about how their pastor sells belts for hitting kids that are designed to not leave a mark 😳

Where do you live?

West, in a small city. Family culture is so different here and heavily punishment-based. Almost every woman I know has been hit by her SO.

Everyone also has kids really young. I’m mid-30s, and I’m an old mom 😆

[Anonymous]

That’s so sad. I don’t think I could live there with people who had that attitude toward women and children. I realize culture plays a big part but omg it would depress me to no end to witness this especially since they think they’re doing the right thing.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's very common where I live. We see parents hit their kids on playdates all the time. It's so sad.

A friend of mine keeps inviting me to church and brags about how their pastor sells belts for hitting kids that are designed to not leave a mark 😳

Where do you live?

West, in a small city. Family culture is so different here and heavily punishment-based. Almost every woman I know has been hit by her SO.

Everyone also has kids really young. I’m mid-30s, and I’m an old mom 😆

I know the Hispanic culture (I know not all) is big into corporal punishment. I was in Texas last year and witness it a lot in public just during the short time I was visiting.

[Anonymous]

It is PP. My ex is Hispanic and one of the reasons we broke up was his idea of discipline involved what I consider physical abuse. It is common for parents to hit the kids. I teach students whose parents discipline that way.