A note to young moms from an older mom

[Anonymous]

I'm a 36 yo mom of preschoolers and I appreciate your post.

I've already decided to ease up on screentime rules, for all our sanity. I want them to remember this as a fun time.

[Anonymous]

Oh man I am so grateful I read this. My heart rate has literally been rising at the thought of homeschooling and keeping the kids on track. But you’re right, in the grand scheme of things this will be a blip.

Phew I’m taking some deep breaths now.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The point would be received better if you weren't so condescending.

Seriously???? That sounds really, really, really defensive.

OP, the trying to catch a raccoon was the best part of your post.

Not defensive, I am an old mom. You make a good point I just think anytime you start telling folks that you have it all figured out and know better how to do something, you sound really condescending.

[Anonymous]

Can I share this with some friends?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The point would be received better if you weren't so condescending.

Seriously???? That sounds really, really, really defensive.

OP, the trying to catch a raccoon was the best part of your post.

LOL! I loved that too. I actually would like for my kids to be out trying to do that, rather than inside on hour 592 of Fortnite. Or Netflix. As their Vitamin D levels quickly drop and rickets set in.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The point would be received better if you weren't so condescending.

Op here - sorry you read it as such. I remember the pressure when my kids were younger and all we had was Baby Center. There are about 10,000 voices telling parents HOW to do this. I wanted to post one voice letting them know it is all gonna be ok. Parenting is a marathon not a sprint.

[Anonymous]

Do you really think we moms are concerned right now about life being perfect or doing it better than other moms?? Please. Many families are scrambling to find child care or to figure out how to telework while managing young kids at home.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do you really think we moms are concerned right now about life being perfect or doing it better than other moms?? Please. Many families are scrambling to find child care or to figure out how to telework while managing young kids at home.

Not every piece of advice is going to apply to everybody. I appreciated this post. A lot.

[Anonymous]

Thanks OP, nice post. All the best to you. All of you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do you really think we moms are concerned right now about life being perfect or doing it better than other moms?? Please. Many families are scrambling to find child care or to figure out how to telework while managing young kids at home.

This.

[Anonymous]

I do miss the old-fashioned snow days, before telework, before online schooling, where we were forced to slow down and take it easy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The point would be received better if you weren't so condescending.

It would've been received well if you weren't so defensive.

[Anonymous]

I agree. I am a mom of HS kids and they still have stuff to do. But, keep it light and chill. You do not have to achieve much more than keeping them healthy and un-stressed. If these kids are hanging out virtually and playing video games online - cut them some slack. They are at an age when they understand the grim realities even more.

[Anonymous]

It's because I'm young that I have the energy to do tons of Pineterest stuff with my kids. If you're old and too tired to do anything with your kids and that's why you let them play video games and eat McDonalds and candy, that's you.

[Anonymous]

This is a great reminder op, thanks for taking the time to post it