Family Vacation ? indisrection

[Anonymous]

10

[Anonymous]

How did that transpire?

Where were you and daughter. Did he just say he was heading out for a night show?

[Anonymous]

This cannot be out of the blue behavior. How does this fit in with other things he’s done?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op here. Totally alone. When on a beach vacation with his wife and 4 year old daughter.

Creepy. Makes me think he is addicted or something. Do you know if he does this or porn at home?

I would be at 11. Creepy and selfish .

He is not a family man, is he????

[Anonymous]

It would be completely out of character for my husband so I'd be very concerned. For someone else's husband, I'd think it's tacky and inconsiderate.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op here. Totally alone. When on a beach vacation with his wife and 4 year old daughter.

Douchebag move
I’d read home the riot act

[Anonymous]

Absolutely 10. I'd be fuming.
And for the record, my DH has gone to strip clubs before during bachelor parties, but during a family vacation just seems so wrong.

[Anonymous]

How did you find out? Did he know you'd be nuts about it. Doesn't seem that big of a deal to me. Maybe I'm just younger, but most of my girlfriends don't care if our men go to strip clubs.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op here. Totally alone. When on a beach vacation with his wife and 4 year old daughter.

Creepy. Makes me think he is addicted or something. Do you know if he does this or porn at home?

I would be at 11. Creepy and selfish .

He is not a family man, is he????

Agree. With a group of buddies on a guys' trip, this would be a 0, but alone on a family vacation, at least a 10!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op here. Totally alone. When on a beach vacation with his wife and 4 year old daughter.

Creepy. Makes me think he is addicted or something. Do you know if he does this or porn at home?

I would be at 11. Creepy and selfish .

He is not a family man, is he????

Agree. With a group of buddies on a guys' trip, this would be a 0, but alone on a family vacation, at least a 10!

This, this, this! Mine is not into strip clubs generally, but out with a bunch of guys at a Bachelor party or something? Whatever, have at it, I don't care. On a vacation leaving me alone to take care of the child, him going out alone to get some kind of a "fix?" No way. That's very weird and I would be at least at a 10.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, you have a problem.

[Anonymous]

Do you regularly provide him with sexual relief? My wife doesn't like having sex on family vacations because it's difficult to have privacy when staying in a hotel room with the kids. All it takes is 5 - 10 minutes in the shower. The tension just builds up too much so family vacations tend to get a bit stressful.

[Anonymous]

A definite 10. When we are on vacation I give him plenty of reasons to stay in our room.....assuming the kids are in a different room!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do you regularly provide him with sexual relief? My wife doesn't like having sex on family vacations because it's difficult to have privacy when staying in a hotel room with the kids. All it takes is 5 - 10 minutes in the shower. The tension just builds up too much so family vacations tend to get a bit stressful.

I'm guessing OP doesn't, and OP has let herself fall apart in the last few years.

[Anonymous]

I would be absolutely crushed.