Men, Would You Be Okay With..

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op here. I want to be married and have a family, but I love sex. I want to be able to have a one night stand or go to a sex club.

Marriage and kids? Why do you think any man would agree to all that legal and financial obligation if you get to have sex with other men?

I have my own money. He can also have sex with others too.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op here. I want to be married and have a family, but I love sex. I want to be able to have a one night stand or go to a sex club.

Marriage and kids? Why do you think any man would agree to all that legal and financial obligation if you get to have sex with other men?

I have my own money. He can also have sex with others too.

Doesn't matter. Marriage entitles you to half his money and half the equity in any house you own. Kids entitle you to child support from him. Why should he sign up for that?

For that matter, why would he have kids in an "open marriage" when the kids might not even be his?

He can have sex with other people without getting married to you.

Only an idiot would agree to the deal you're offering.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op here. I want to be married and have a family, but I love sex. I want to be able to have a one night stand or go to a sex club.

Marriage and kids? Why do you think any man would agree to all that legal and financial obligation if you get to have sex with other men?

I have my own money. He can also have sex with others too.

Married man here and likely to divorce my low libido wife when kids get older. I would definitely be into this as a second marriage. I am not sexually jealous and make monogamy is a death sentence for many people. Sign me up for what you are selling

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Dating or marrying a woman who wants to have an open marriage. No emotions, just sex?

I have no problem with it. I would require a few things though. STD checks regularly. And an understanding that protection is always used. Maybe not with us (benefits of marriage).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Dating or marrying a woman who wants to have an open marriage. No emotions, just sex?

Depends on how sprung on her I was. If she lit up my life and rocked my world and had me grinning 24/7 and seeing rainbows and unicorns yeah.

[Anonymous]

I am a man who got lucky and married a beautiful woman. My wife had sex with boyfriends before we were married, and I am completely OK that she had those experiences. I believe that they helped to make her who she is now. I make an effort to support her and be available to her emotionally and sexually, and I put in hours at the gym so that she remains genuinely attracted to me. It would break my heart if she wanted to be with another man.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why get married?

So they won't be alone.

To create and build wealth. To have a more secure environment in which to raise children.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why get married?

So they won't be alone.

To create and build wealth. To have a more secure environment in which to raise children.

"Wife is allowed to go and bang other men" directly undermines both of those objectives.