Anonymous wrote:4th grade should be 40 minutes of homework. If that's too much, you guys should work on time management. I understand that some nights it can take longer, but in general, a student should be able to get the homework done and still have time for activities, dinner, a shower, etc.
I see it as a life lesson. It is very important to have a well-rounded child, but also to learn about priorities. A child's "job" is going to school. They need to be able to complete their work before enjoying outside activities. I can't imagine what my boss would say if I didn't get a project done because of my golf lessons. Some will see this as completely different, but I see it as preparing a child for the future.
I agree with this. My children likewise have outside activities (music, swimming, soccer, church commitments) and yet they manage to get homework done, without feeling overwhelmed - they have ample free time as well.
OP, you say "I want my kids to have fun outside of school. I see that homework load as a potential problem. Of course I would work with him in areas if he has difficulty, but if he wants to swim and play music and does well in school with minimal effort, what is the problem?"
The problem is this: Homework is required. It is part of what he needs to do as part of his class requirements. As a student, he needs to do the work, no matter how "minimal" his "effort" may be to get excellent grades.
If you have that much of an issue with what is required, then keep your son in a place where homework is not required. Don't enroll him in a program knowing that you will teach him to blow off his responsibilities - you won't be doing him any favors and will be setting him up for problems (not to mention, ticking off the teacher).
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