Au Pair Going into your closet

[Anonymous]

Out of curiosity, how did you catch her doing this? Is this something that your husband could have walked in on?

[Anonymous]

Hmm. If you found out by invading HER privacy then I’d probably give her another chance. Maybe she got the message from you that there was no privacy in your house while she’s there.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Hmm. If you found out by invading HER privacy then I’d probably give her another chance. Maybe she got the message from you that there was no privacy in your house while she’s there.

She shared these photos under the title “Family,” and it is mostly my
Kids scattered with her selfies.

Appreciate the tone, though. Very helpful.

[Anonymous]

I just want to say that when I was a nanny my MB had a closest full of beautiful clothing from Anthropologie and banana republic. i did look through it a few times when baby was asleep. But how do you know she went through your closet? Did you walk in?

[Anonymous]

PP. Op answered how she found out in the last page. Definitely too much if she took pictures of wearing your clothes. Also I’m kinda doubting that’s how you found out? So once she uploads them on iCloud anyone can see the pictures correct?

[Anonymous]

I don't know what kind of upbringing and morals these posters have who think totally acceptable and somehow making it OP's fault for the crime of finding out.. Anyway as a young adult I can imagine doing this with my roommate's clothes perhaps in a moment of weakness and being mortified on being found out and knowing its totally wrong and owning up.

[Anonymous]

It's a huge predictable invasion of privacy. If I have someone in my house when I'm not, and I don't want them going through my stuff, I lock the bedroom and/or closet door.