Anything your kid wants to excel at is going to require a lot of hours of practice, be it travel soccer, an instrument or a business idea. It's about developing natural talents. As long as the kid is happy and driven, it's fine. |
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OP, I watched the whole thing. I love the spelling bee! I am amazed at how those final eight did not miss. Unprecedented! It reminds me of how James Holzhauser (sp?) is “breaking” Jeopardy.
I didn’t click on your thread earlier because, on DCUM, discussion of the spelling bee usually devolves into bashing of Indian-Americans and tons of stereotypes. |
...and discussion of college admissions usually devolves into bashing of African Americans and tons of stereotypes. There's also some irony there but I won't get into that. |
I'm an earlier poster who said the bee was losing it's charm. I didn't want to go there and I really don't want to bash Indian-Americans, but the bee is also losing its charm because it is turning into a thing for only one cultural sub-group. I get that Indians approach spelling bees the same way whites approach soccer (as an example) but that also makes it less fun and makes it harder to relate to the bees. |
One can say this about a lot of things. DS is a kid who is great at learning impressive but useless skills - solving a rubik's cube really fast, reciting 100 digits of pi while juggling, playing a piano upside down...if the kids want to do it (and I do question that at some level, but let's assume they do), then why not? It's no more or less useless than a ton of other pursuits that keep humans occupied. |
+1 Has the PP even seen a spelling bee? They always ask for the definitions of the word. If you don't think it's improving their reading comprehension and writing abilities and plain old learning how to work at something. |
PP here. Yes, I've seen many spelling bees. I watch that one every year (I even switched between the Bee and the NBA Finals Game 1 and I'm a big basketball fan). The asking for the definition of the word is part of the method/process which is taught by the coach. It helps them learn the origin and the spelling of similar words or the root of the word. Of course it improves their ability to work hard at something...nobody is questioning that. Stop being so defensive. |
I don't think it's Indian-American bashing to lose interest in the spelling bee. If it's an event that you can't relate to the participants, then your interest can wane. I've heard the same thing about professional basketball from white people. They love college basketball because they can relate to many of the white kids (especially those who choose to stay at the school for 4 years). However, they often complain about the rich, entitled, black professional players who only stay in college for 1 year. I won't even get into the love for baseball and hockey (eventhough most hockey players are Russian or Canadian). |
NP. Some sports are ridiculous too. You know what else tiger moms have ruined? Mathcounts. In the exact same way. It’s become so competitive I think it turns more kids off than inspires kids to want to “play”. |
I think it was Will Shortz. |
No. Will Shortz does the crosswords. The announcer is Jacques A. Bailly who won the 1980 Scripps National Spelling Bee and serves as the Bee's official pronouncer, a position he has held since 2003. |
Tiger Moms has also pretty much ended homework in many VA public elementary schools. They hire private tutors and have their kids attend afterschool programs like Kumon and Mathnasium so they've pushed for less "official" homework from the schools. This leaves the kids without the means or time to do the outside work at a disadvantage. It's really a shame when I hear parents complain that their kids don't get any homework because I know they are falling behind the kids with parents who can afford the outside help. That's not really meeting the goals of the public school system. |
| I think it is a mistake to have 8 winners. It is part of our superlative and qualitative culture where every kid gets a ribbon and we don't want anyone to feel like they lost or left out. I don't see why those 8 are more special and deserving than the other thousand or so who were defeated earlier in the competition. The children should keep being quizzed on words until there is a winner. IMO it is a big mistake to award the championship to 8 children. |
They ran out of words to give the kids. They weren’t doing it to be nice. |
They ran out of words because there used to be around 250 kids participating and now there are around 500 because of all the kids who bought their way in. |