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So Einstein High was the featured school that was graduating kids with all the unexcused absences? Not surprised. But let’s hear again from the same crowd that is always claiming that it’s the W schools that are toxic.
So much coddling and hidden failure in MCPS. |
I don’t think you understand what toxic means. |
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But they are referring to 47 PERIODS, right? Not 47 days?
That said, there is a lot of "forgiveness" in the system. My kid was tardy way too many days. We received a note home that 3 tardies=an unexused absence and a certain number of unexcused absences = failure of the course. But the remedy right there in the letter home was that dd could write a letter to the counselor explaining the situation and she wouldn't fail. Dd took this as tacit permission to continue her tardiness... (This is off topic but she actually took this on as a challenge. Her claim is that the teacher marked her late when she was in the room but not in her seat and didn't mark others late for the same issue. So I believe she went out of her way to 'test' the system by standing with some others in the room to see who would be marked tardy, knowing there were no teeth in the school policy. Turns out she was never even asked for the letter to the counselor...) |
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I think it’s excellent that MCPS is trying to meet kids where they are and assist with the barriers that prevent kids from getting to school. It’s great that some kids can get to school and engage in the traditional al manner but that doesn’t work for everyone.
I’m a parent of a kid who has very serious mental health issues and the number of days that he goes is far less than the number he doesnt go. So I see first hand the efforts MCPS puts in to make kids successful. Because of this he will earn a diploma and will have a chance to be successful. |
? That was the example HS. It goes on all over. That is the point of the article. I know personally that some parents in W schools pull out their kids all the time for things like traveling or what not and game the system to "excuse" it. Travel is not an excusable absence. |
So you're blaming teachers now? This is a point I've made again and again, and you're part of the problem. I don't owe you an explanation of steps I've taken, especially with your accusatory tone. You're part of the problem, and you'll continue to help the system erode each and every day. thanks |
All very true, PP. My child has special needs and sometimes missed school, and there are times I forget or can’t be bothered to notify the school attendance officer. His grades have never suffered because his teachers know he’s a serious student who will make up all work. However, there does seem to be something extra going on at certain low income high schools. It’s not hard to realize that some students skip school and get a diploma they didn’t study correctly for. To me this says that there should be more school counselors in these schools to provide psychological and emotional support for at risk students. |
I’m glad to hear that. I hope things get better for your son. Not having attendance be a barrier is probably key to that. Our traditional model of school doesn’t work for most kids. It actually has never worked for all, but it definitely only fits a minority of students, leaving most underserved or extremely badly served. I get why people home school. However, too many of those who do probably shouldn’t and at least some of them only do so because we don’t offer a viable alternative. Then, we punish kids for responding to being trapped in a system that isn’t meeting their needs, but they are “stupid” or “bad” for not pretending sand is sugar. |
This work is part of our job. Each and every day. You don’t do this important part of your job and you resent being called out for it. |
| What if you were a doctor with a patient whose diabetes and HBP was getting worse because he was gaining weight? If he he said he was gaining weight because he was stress eating and that he was recently divorced and had never learned to cook so he ate fast food three times a day. Wouldn’t you want to help him address those reasons? You could refer him to a therapist for the stress. You could enroll him in a nutrition program at the hospital. Or would you just be satisfied knowing why he was gaining weight because then you could say it was not your fault? |
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Just want to note here that teachers cannot be everything to all students: gang-buster, parole officer, psychologist, therapist, priest, doctor and parent.
I’m a parent. I cannot blame teachers. |
We can’t be everything, but we can, should, and must work with the resources we have to help students. Too many teachers aren’t using the tools and services we have been given. I have colleagues who do use the Language Line that provides a translator if you have to call home to speak to a parent who isn’t fluent in English. Leaving six messages in English does not beat making one phone call in Spanish or Amharic or Creole. I have colleagues who hold quizzes on the day they know Linkages to Learning meetings are held. As a result, the child invited to the meeting must choose between attending this support or having to make up the quiz at the teacher’s convenience. |
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| Not MCPS but parents know that nothing will happen if their kid has uneducated absences. I’ve had a student who has missed the equivalent of one school year in the last three years. Nothing has happened. Apparently there are worse cases so get in line. Not surprisingly, this student is below grade level. This is the typical line I get at parent conferences- “Larla doesn’t like to go to school.” Oh yeah? Well it is your job as a parent to send her whether she likes it or not. I would rather stay home and play on my tablet all day too. Most of my conferences end up as us giving out parenting advice. |