Men: do you fantasize about friends’ wives?

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:These responses are grossing me out


I guess you'd rather be so unattractive that men never had sexual thoughts about you?


Uh, no I don’t want to be fantasized about by my friends’ husband. Ugh
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:These responses are grossing me out


I guess you'd rather be so unattractive that men never had sexual thoughts about you?


Uh, no I don’t want to be fantasized about by my friends’ husband. Ugh


Well you don’t really get to decide that. I’ll never understand some of you and your proclaimed disgust at normal, human sexual behavior. Do you really think the basic sexual impulses that guide pretty much all mating creatures somehow have nothing to do with us? As the song goes, you and me baby ain’t nothin’ but mammals...
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:These responses are grossing me out


I guess you'd rather be so unattractive that men never had sexual thoughts about you?


Uh, no I don’t want to be fantasized about by my friends’ husband. Ugh


Well you don’t really get to decide that. I’ll never understand some of you and your proclaimed disgust at normal, human sexual behavior. Do you really think the basic sexual impulses that guide pretty much all mating creatures somehow have nothing to do with us? As the song goes, you and me baby ain’t nothin’ but mammals...


I’m just glad I have no idea what goes on in other people’s minds...
Anonymous
I guarantee you every guy with a normal sex drive fantasizes about a wife’s good looking friend’s.
Anonymous
Most of them. The ones that have stayed in shape. My wife has gained over 40 pounds, so I need something hot to fantasize about.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I guarantee you every guy with a normal sex drive fantasizes about a wife’s good looking friend’s.


This is correct. If you don't think this is true, you are naive.
Anonymous
This depends on what the meaning of fantasize is. One friend has a wife who is so stunning it is difficult not to stare.

But no, I don't picture them bent over the table or anything like that.
Anonymous
Definitely, I am sure I speak for 99% of men. The other 1% are either lying or their wives don't have attractive friends.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Luckily I think my wife is hotter than my friends' wives

I would fantasize if they were hot though, but them being much hotter than my wife would be a blow to my ego and a turnoff


Wait - so your ego is wrapped up in your (likely mistaken) belief that your wife if hotter than your friends' wives?

That's . . . pretty pathetic.
Anonymous
dream about the neighbors wives, the milf at safeway, the college girl walking down the sidewalk, the flight attendant on my last flight, the mothers of my daughters friends, my daughters freinds(college age)

I'm an equal opportunity dreamer...

Anonymous
Do I fantasize about them? No. Do I think they are attractive or find a certain outfit sexy? Yes. But that's pretty much where it ends for me.

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Definitely, I am sure I speak for 99% of men. The other 1% are either lying or their wives don't have attractive friends.

I'm in the 1%
I got really lucky with my DW. She has an amazing body and still looks great, her friends don't even compare
Anonymous
There was one I use to but sadly she put on a ton of weight which killed the thought. Luckily my wife of many years is still pretty darn hot and enjoys and initiates sex. Now I'm wondering if any of my friends fantasize about her?
Anonymous
Yup. Our lackluster sex life means that the spank bank needs to diversify its assets.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I fantasize about two of the moms of my DD's classmates. Total smokeshows. She is 9, they are probably 30.


So they had their kids around age 21?


They could be mid-30s, but if they are, they look younger. And having a baby at 21 is actually not unheard of.
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