Very attractive people have it easier when it comes to dating. Agree or disagree?

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:No. I’d say attractive but not very attractive have it best in terms of dating.


Yes stunning is intimidating. Not that I would know personally but it's what i have observed
Anonymous
Thin people have an easier time dating, male and female both.
Anonymous
Yes, if you're talking about getting dates initially, attractive people do not have a hard time finding people to go out with them. BUT most people are not "very attractive," so I wouldnt be too concerned, if you're not.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Very attractive as in stunning or model potential?

I disagree. Basing this on my good friend who is stunning. Her looks get her lots of attention but doesn’t transfer to relationships or even dates.

She gets hit on. Guys just want to have sex with her or flirt with her for their own ego boost, but very few dates.

People always assume she’ taken.

It’s too bad because she’s a great person.

This was my experience when I was young. I was very beautiful in an exotic sexy way. Guys were always intrigued by me and very attracted to me, and, of course, they wanted to have sex with me. But very few ever asked me on a real date or pursued a relationship for me. Most of them ended up dating and marrying the plain or semi cute kindergarten teacher types. I think that I, as well as other very attractive women, sometimes don’t fit the “image” some guys have on their heads of what a girlfriend, wife, or mother should be. Either that or all of the guys I knew were warped!

Anonymous
Yes. No debate
Anonymous
I'm rolling my eyes at all the comments about "stunning" super model types having a hard time.

I don't think Miranda Kerr, Gigi Hadid, Giselle, etc. have ever had a hard time finding a quality man.
Anonymous
I think sometimes they attract the kind of men who care a lot about what other people think about them and are focused on projecting a certain kind of image.
I wouldn’t want it for my daughter.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I'm rolling my eyes at all the comments about "stunning" super model types having a hard time.

I don't think Miranda Kerr, Gigi Hadid, Giselle, etc. have ever had a hard time finding a quality man.

They are actual supermodels though they have access to the billionaires in the sport stars. Your regular woman who looks like a super model, but only has access to average guys might be intimidating.
Anonymous
A lot of men tend to pick the low lying fruit, so being very attractive comes with certain stereotypes.
Anonymous
Model hot women do not have it easy. They have to prove themselves to men and women.

Regular pretty women have it the easiest.

Being sexy doesn’t necessarily help.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I'm rolling my eyes at all the comments about "stunning" super model types having a hard time.

I don't think Miranda Kerr, Gigi Hadid, Giselle, etc. have ever had a hard time finding a quality man.


It’s about finding a man interested in you beyond your looks.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Very attractive as in stunning or model potential?

I disagree. Basing this on my good friend who is stunning. Her looks get her lots of attention but doesn’t transfer to relationships or even dates.

She gets hit on. Guys just want to have sex with her or flirt with her for their own ego boost, but very few dates.

People always assume she’ taken.

It’s too bad because she’s a great person.

This was my experience when I was young. I was very beautiful in an exotic sexy way. Guys were always intrigued by me and very attracted to me, and, of course, they wanted to have sex with me. But very few ever asked me on a real date or pursued a relationship for me. Most of them ended up dating and marrying the plain or semi cute kindergarten teacher types. I think that I, as well as other very attractive women, sometimes don’t fit the “image” some guys have on their heads of what a girlfriend, wife, or mother should be. Either that or all of the guys I knew were warped!



Same. Agree.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I think sometimes they attract the kind of men who care a lot about what other people think about them and are focused on projecting a certain kind of image.
I wouldn’t want it for my daughter.


+1, I agree with this. It is pretty easy to weed those types out (big ego fed with a lot of deep rooted insecurity) early on if you know the flags to look for.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Model hot women do not have it easy. They have to prove themselves to men and women.

Regular pretty women have it the easiest.

Being sexy doesn’t necessarily help.


Right. See the “what do men think when they see an attractive woman” thread for examples of the Pavlovian mental programming you are faced with out the gate.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Model hot women do not have it easy. They have to prove themselves to men and women.

Regular pretty women have it the easiest.

Being sexy doesn’t necessarily help.


Right. See the “what do men think when they see an attractive woman” thread for examples of the Pavlovian mental programming you are faced with out the gate.


Eh, men are motivated to try to spend time with a pretty woman?
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