Men : do you care about a woman’s job/career?

[Anonymous]

Every guy I’ve dated seemed to care, but maybe I’m not hot enough to get away with being uneducated and jobless.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:DH here. You women are over thinking things. The only thing men care about is getting laid. Everything else is secondary.

Clearly not my DH who is very pleased he has a wife who pays the whole mortgage with 1/4 of my paycheck.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Wow! Priyanka Chopra was correct that men did not respect her hard work to get where she is. I am glad she married an enlightened man in Nick Jonas, who said that he admire how hard she has worked for her career and did not want her to curb her ambitions. RESPECT!!!

She's an actress and beauty queen. She got where she is primarily by LOOKING HOT. LMAO at the idea we should respect her "career accomplishments" .

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH here. You women are over thinking things. The only thing men care about is getting laid. Everything else is secondary.

Clearly not my DH who is very pleased he has a wife who pays the whole mortgage with 1/4 of my paycheck.

Men will date "hot and broke" but it's foolish to marry it.

[Anonymous]

This question is frequently asked and the thread is always kinda depressing.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This question is frequently asked and the thread is always kinda depressing.

Why? Your job is whatever you do when you’re off at work. Having a better job doesn’t make you a better prospect for girlfriend however.

[Anonymous]

My male colleagues and friends do care. They are looking for dual-income professional marriages mostly and aren't into "freeloaders." They spend a lot of time around good looking, smart, successful women and look for similar in the women they date.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I work in tech & have lots of single male friends. This is what I hear from them:
I want her to have enough of a career that my friends & family would respect her, but not so much that she would put me second for it.

I think the important piece here is that they are single. They also probably think porn is real sex.

[Anonymous]

More than just sex. I want a partner with goals and ambitions

[Anonymous]

Some men really care. Do not marry one of those. My husband said when we were dating that he required his future wife to make at least $100,000 a year. I almost broke up with him. I wish I did.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Some men really care. Do not marry one of those. My husband said when we were dating that he required his future wife to make at least $100,000 a year. I almost broke up with him. I wish I did.

Just curious, how much does he make?

[Anonymous]

I would like her to have a career that does not embarrass me

Aka not a stripper or a janitor

Other than that, no

In the last thread, the consensus was kindergarten teacher is the best career

[Anonymous]

Based on the number of men who bought us drinks and then walked away before they arrived, yes. Some men do not want to date female lawyers.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH here. You women are over thinking things. The only thing men care about is getting laid. Everything else is secondary.

Clearly not my DH who is very pleased he has a wife who pays the whole mortgage with 1/4 of my paycheck.

+1. The kept man thing ain't a bad deal. I'm here messing around on DCUM while the kids sleep as she is grinding away at the office.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Wow! Priyanka Chopra was correct that men did not respect her hard work to get where she is. I am glad she married an enlightened man in Nick Jonas, who said that he admire how hard she has worked for her career and did not want her to curb her ambitions. RESPECT!!!

She's an actress and beauty queen. She got where she is primarily by LOOKING HOT. LMAO at the idea we should respect her "career accomplishments" .

“ beauty queen”? She’s is far from it. She’s average looking. Hot women work hard too.