Guys how do show you are interested in a woman?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I have trouble interpreting if a guy is just being friendly or if he likes me.

Guys don't waste time being "friendly" to women they don't want to bang.

+1. Although important for women to realize they may not want to “date” you.

Also to realize that they may not want to have sex with you either. I know it is hard to believe but I am friends with women and I do not want to have sex with them. They are not my type and I am not their type but we are friendly to each other.

I have actual male friends who don't seem inclined to bang me. They are married and so am I. We get coffee and talk about life. and are not each other's type. There's such a thing as nonsexual companionship.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have trouble interpreting if a guy is just being friendly or if he likes me.

Guys don't waste time being "friendly" to women they don't want to bang.

+1. Although important for women to realize they may not want to “date” you.

Also to realize that they may not want to have sex with you either. I know it is hard to believe but I am friends with women and I do not want to have sex with them. They are not my type and I am not their type but we are friendly to each other.

Are you gay or bi?

Oh I see if a man does not want to have sex with a woman he must be gay....because you as a woman are just irresistible to all men! LOL what a sexist and egotistical narcissist. Hey better not let your boyfriend/husband out of sight because any woman could replace you...his only motivation is sex and any woman can fill that need.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have trouble interpreting if a guy is just being friendly or if he likes me.

Guys don't waste time being "friendly" to women they don't want to bang.

+1. Although important for women to realize they may not want to “date” you.

Also to realize that they may not want to have sex with you either. I know it is hard to believe but I am friends with women and I do not want to have sex with them. They are not my type and I am not their type but we are friendly to each other.

I have actual male friends who don't seem inclined to bang me. They are married and so am I. We get coffee and talk about life. and are not each other's type. There's such a thing as nonsexual companionship.

There are women you want to bang, and would bang if you were both available, but it's not worth blowing your life up over her.

Start flirting with them and you'll see if they are "inclined" or not.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:In social settings, they stand near you even if they don’t engage.

When you look in their direction, you find them looking at you. Instant gaze avert.

Socially, they appear where you are and find reasons to be around you more.

They touch you. More than a handshake, to test the waters.

Do u live under a rock?

Can someone explain this to me? If a guy likes you, why not just come over and talk?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have trouble interpreting if a guy is just being friendly or if he likes me.

Guys don't waste time being "friendly" to women they don't want to bang.

+1. Although important for women to realize they may not want to “date” you.

Also to realize that they may not want to have sex with you either. I know it is hard to believe but I am friends with women and I do not want to have sex with them. They are not my type and I am not their type but we are friendly to each other.

I have actual male friends who don't seem inclined to bang me. They are married and so am I. We get coffee and talk about life. and are not each other's type. There's such a thing as nonsexual companionship.

Assume the discussion is about men who are single and looking for someone to date.

[Anonymous]

Guy here- if I'm interested in someone I ask them out for coffee, a drink, whatever. Am I weird?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Guy here- if I'm interested in someone I ask them out for coffee, a drink, whatever. Am I weird?

Yes you are. The #metoo gestapo will be after you for stalking. Before you can express interest in a woman you must be fully vetted.

[Anonymous]

how quickly is he responding to your texts or emails? If it is fast he is looking to get laid and has many lines in the water, if it is awhile, you are in the friends zone, if it is in the middle and more than a few word response you have a chance.

text him Sunday during a football game, see how he responds. chances are he would rather watch football but if not he probably is into you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have trouble interpreting if a guy is just being friendly or if he likes me.

Guys don't waste time being "friendly" to women they don't want to bang.

+1. Although important for women to realize they may not want to “date” you.

Also to realize that they may not want to have sex with you either. I know it is hard to believe but I am friends with women and I do not want to have sex with them. They are not my type and I am not their type but we are friendly to each other.

Are you gay or bi?

Oh I see if a man does not want to have sex with a woman he must be gay....because you as a woman are just irresistible to all men! LOL what a sexist and egotistical narcissist. Hey better not let your boyfriend/husband out of sight because any woman could replace you...his only motivation is sex and any woman can fill that need.

No, of course not - doesn’t mean he’s gay. This has been brought up before but IME, an opposite sex friendship with no ulterior motives or no attraction is the exception rather than he norm. At some point, sexual feelings will come into play just about every time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:how quickly is he responding to your texts or emails? If it is fast he is looking to get laid and has many lines in the water, if it is awhile, you are in the friends zone, if it is in the middle and more than a few word response you have a chance.

text him Sunday during a football game, see how he responds. chances are he would rather watch football but if not he probably is into you.

Nah. He could be taking his time responding because he doesn't want to seem desperate.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:how quickly is he responding to your texts or emails? If it is fast he is looking to get laid and has many lines in the water, if it is awhile, you are in the friends zone, if it is in the middle and more than a few word response you have a chance.

text him Sunday during a football game, see how he responds. chances are he would rather watch football but if not he probably is into you.

Nah. He could be taking his time responding because he doesn't want to seem desperate.

quick response eon either end means hook up. not relationship not desperate. if she is still texting after hooking up get out of doge and don't respond. she is desperate.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have trouble interpreting if a guy is just being friendly or if he likes me.

Guys don't waste time being "friendly" to women they don't want to bang.

+1. Although important for women to realize they may not want to “date” you.

Also to realize that they may not want to have sex with you either. I know it is hard to believe but I am friends with women and I do not want to have sex with them. They are not my type and I am not their type but we are friendly to each other.

I have actual male friends who don't seem inclined to bang me. They are married and so am I. We get coffee and talk about life. and are not each other's type. There's such a thing as nonsexual companionship.

Doesn't mean they wouldn't bang you if they had the chance and could get away with it.

[Anonymous]

I don't understand. I have tons of opposite sex friendships, particularly at work, and no one is even remotely attracted.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don't understand. I have tons of opposite sex friendships, particularly at work, and no one is even remotely attracted.

Are you married? If not, are you fat and live with three cats? The odds are low of someone who is single with a ton of opposite sex friendships not being attracted to or attractive to someone.

[Anonymous]

Only on DCUM do posters categorize every male as some sort of sexual demon who is incapable of friendship or emotional connection. It’s a depressing portrayal.

If a guy likes you OP he will spend time with you, initiate and maintain contact, try to make room in his life for you.