| Little things he does without being asked. Brings me coffee in bed most mornings. Fills my water bottle before I leave for work every single day. Takes care of our home and child and would never say he is "babysitting". |
That ain’t difficult to do . |
| He let's me be as independent as I want, but I'm really quite dependent on him in many ways, and I suspect he knows that. |
What about all the threads on here about men who don’t do it. |
So guys are better than others. |
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I have a stressful job that can be emotionally taxing. We were out with friends once and DH was saying that no matter what, he always makes sure to listen to me if i need to talk about work. It was something i hadn't really noticed before, so i started paying attention. He doesn't just listen but he LISTENS. He knows by my tone and what I'm saying if i need a hug, or advice, or just someone to agree with me. I don't have to ask him.
And like a pp said, he just makes my life easier in both big and small ways. He makes me feel beautiful and wanted and loved. |