What do you think of people who say...

Anonymous
Sh*tty parent/not a parent to their child.
Anonymous
I would not say it about my toddler.

But I love in the movie I Love You, Man when the Dad says his grown son is his best friend. That’s great, I think.
Anonymous
This thread is so validating, glad I'm not the only one who judges the shit out of those people.
Anonymous
This is why it's so exhausting to be a parent. A bunch of bitches waiting to pounce on a silly statement and make judgments about someone's parenting, values, etc.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I think they’re immature, and/or don’t understand what a friend is. A friend is an equal and friendship is reciprocal. A child is not an equal and parenthood is the most lopsided relationship you’ll have in your life, where you should be giving without expectation of your child doing anything for you.


This. All of it.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:This is why it's so exhausting to be a parent. A bunch of bitches waiting to pounce on a silly statement and make judgments about someone's parenting, values, etc.


Yep.
But I don’t get hung up semantics.
Anonymous
My dh deployed for 6 months when my oldest was 2.5. I spent every waking minute with her for 6 months and we coslept. I SAH and moved to another city to be near my parents for help during the short time. It was weird. We had a 1br apt. I did don’t go crazy. I loved it. It was a really special time. I don’t think I ever called her my best friend, but she was!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I think they just mean they like hanging out with their kid more than anyone else.

No need to think too deeply about someone’s casual statement.


My thoughts exactly! No need to complicate and analyze everything.
Anonymous
I Feel bad for adult women who consider their mom their best friend, I mean, that’s just sad. I’m sure your mom is terrific, but you should have a same age friend who can relate as a peer. Your mom is never going to be your peer. And she needs a BFF who is her same age and life stage too!

For example. Lorelei has Sookie, Rory has Lane. But Gilmore girls is 1. Make believe and 2. A teen pregnancy and special situation. Your typical arlington mom should not be referring to her mom as her best friend.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:my son is my best friend. sorry i'm not sorry.


You talk to him about sex? Drugs? Gossip? Family secrets?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:my son is my best friend. sorry i'm not sorry.


You talk to him about sex? Drugs? Gossip? Family secrets?


My child is not my best friend but not everyone has to have the same definition as you for what constitutes a best friend. I mean really, drugs? Not everyone is a gossip...
Anonymous
I just think of Mean Girls-- "I'm not a regular mom, I'm a cool mom"
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