I HATE JOE!

[Anonymous]

Have you considered the possibility that she will come home some day soon and say that she wants to move in with Joe?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Give your wife an ultimatum- you or Joe.

This cuck can't do that because it couldn't be more obvious who she would choose.

[Anonymous]

Find yourself a younger woman, OP. They are awesome. You can try sugaring until you find one you really click with. When your wife finally leave you, you won't care.

[Anonymous]

It would have been a better story if she had the baby and made you take hormones to BF it.

[Anonymous]

That was one “whatever” and “okay, fine” too many; you allowed this to happen and now you’re in a pickle. I’m sorry.

[Anonymous]

Hmm. I don’t know that many Joes. It’s not such a common name any more. I wonder if we know the same Joe?

[Anonymous]

Is Joe his real name?

[Anonymous]

Dude. No man would put up with this. Can’t be real.

If it is you better get out. Fast.

[Anonymous]

I want to be JOE!! He has it made.

[Anonymous]

Has to be a put on. Lol

[Anonymous]

There are a lot of flavors of nonmonogamy. Sounds like you are "monogamish" (flings outside of a central core partnership) and she might be full on polyamorous (multiple partners with varying levels of romantic, sexual and logistical entanglements)

Neither is right or wrong, but you better get on the same page.

It sounds like you need to sit down with her and talk about YOUR connection. Let her know that you miss weekends away with her. You you miss the sexual connection (assuming you've been turned down more often than the day you mentioned she had a date with Joe later...) try to focus the conversation entirely on what is currently not working for you and don't bring up Joe at all. Otherwise you'll sound whiny.

Say, honey, I miss weekends away with you. I know Labor day is out, but can we plan a few tonight for just us?

[Anonymous]

Your wife is getting everything she wants. How is this situation good for you, exactly? She’s treating you like crap. Stop letting her walk all over you!

Also, scale of 1-10, how messed up are your kids living in this dynamic? I feel sorry for them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There are a lot of flavors of nonmonogamy. Sounds like you are "monogamish" (flings outside of a central core partnership) and she might be full on polyamorous (multiple partners with varying levels of romantic, sexual and logistical entanglements)

Neither is right or wrong, but you better get on the same page.

It sounds like you need to sit down with her and talk about YOUR connection. Let her know that you miss weekends away with her. You you miss the sexual connection (assuming you've been turned down more often than the day you mentioned she had a date with Joe later...) try to focus the conversation entirely on what is currently not working for you and don't bring up Joe at all. Otherwise you'll sound whiny.

Say, honey, I miss weekends away with you. I know Labor day is out, but can we plan a few tonight for just us?

“Honey, something isn’t working for me.” Oh, could it be Joe’s D in your wife? I think he needs to be a little more specific than that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Im sorry that my "story" wasnt full of erotica to satisfy your midday jerk off session. Its not a troll post nor meant to garner sympathy or rage. Its simply what has been going on in my life the last 10 months.

My wife and I have a really good relationship in every aspect except where Joe enters the picture. Which is wht the "story" was about.

Yes, I have gone out and got laid a few times, which she knows about as well. But I honestly didnt think it was worth the effort.

so playing along that this is not a troll post, you are a cuckhold and your wife has zero respect for you. figure out how to find your self respect again and pout your life together first, then figure out if your marriage is actually a marriage worth saving, because this is totally f*cked up.

- and I'm a man.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There are a lot of flavors of nonmonogamy. Sounds like you are "monogamish" (flings outside of a central core partnership) and she might be full on polyamorous (multiple partners with varying levels of romantic, sexual and logistical entanglements)

Neither is right or wrong, but you better get on the same page.

It sounds like you need to sit down with her and talk about YOUR connection. Let her know that you miss weekends away with her. You you miss the sexual connection (assuming you've been turned down more often than the day you mentioned she had a date with Joe later...) try to focus the conversation entirely on what is currently not working for you and don't bring up Joe at all. Otherwise you'll sound whiny.

Say, honey, I miss weekends away with you. I know Labor day is out, but can we plan a few tonight for just us?

“Honey, something isn’t working for me.” Oh, could it be Joe’s D in your wife? I think he needs to be a little more specific than that.

Actually, OP was pretty clear he didn't care if his wife got some strange. He started to care when she became less available for sex and time with him.